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How does a woman show her interest in You?

2009-09-09T10:20:00.000-07:00

How does a woman show her interest in You?

Since a woman will hardly use words (see It is your Duty to use Words) she has other methods of showing that she is interested in YOU:

A woman will move to the rhythm of the music while looking at you
A woman will touch her breasts
A women will lean forward to you
A woman will lean towards you and talk into your ear
A woman will start to touch you (your shoulder, your arm, your thigh, your hand...)
A women will blink more
A woman will blush while being around you
A woman will blow smoke towards you (Warning! Could be a sign of disgust, too)
A woman will match her laughing to your laughing
A woman will match her drinking (= taking the drinking glass) to your drinking (this is a general sympathy rule and doesn't necessary mean sensual readiness)
A woman will with the table legs: Wrapping her legs around the table legs, touching them etc.
A woman will smile to you and raise her eyebrows
A women will keep glancing at you (probably with dilated pupils)
A women will touch/scratch her legs
A women will lick her lips, touch her front teeth with her tongue
A woman will bite her fingernail
A woman will get erected nipples (sometimes you can see that thru her clothes)
A women will play with their hair
- running with her hand thru her hair
- stroking hair
- twirling hair around her fingers
- twisting streaks
- throwing her hair off her shoulders
A women will play with her lips (biting them, touch them with a glass etc.)
A women will look right into your eyes without words and then smile
A woman will double-check her outfit and will fix it/ enhance it for you
...
And maybe most importantly: A woman will look 3 times at you:
1. She looks
2. She looks away
3. She looks
4. She looks away
5. She looks
Now you can smile at her and go to her. And I literally mean GO. Then apply all the other dating advices of this site :-) But whatever you do: Do not look down or away.

I do not say that a woman will use EVERY of the ways mentioned above to show her "readiness". But a woman usually uses one or more of them.

Dating Ideas and Tips

2009-09-09T10:18:00.000-07:00

Date Ideas and Tips

Go to a playground that's not in use and play! Take along a picnic lunch, baseball, bat, Frisbee or outdoor toys (blowing bubbles is fun)� Have a great lunch after playtime.

Don't surprise your date with a hatchet movie, meal, etc. on the first date. They may be allergic to horror films - and you don't want to 'surprise' a vegetarian with a dinner at "Harvey's House of Beef."
With a 'surprise' date you could end up with a teetottler at a wine-tasting, or a lactose-intolerant date at a cheese fest - you get the picture...

Be honest, don't play games. Avoid even stretching the truth, the first time you're caught it will destroy your credibility.

Be on time. Lateness is inconsiderate (not to mention it reveals all sorts of things about your personality such as your passive-aggressive tendencies). If your date is late, be pleasant, and listen to their reason - it might be legitimate.

Tell yourself you're not nervous, just excited.

If your date compliments you don't just brush it off or say something rude about yourself, say thank you and do NOT put yourself down.

If you're concerned about topics of conversation, be sure to read a newspaper or watch a news program that day so you're up on world events.

Find out if he has any good platonic female friends. It's a good sign if they can relate to women�

Keep checking the inside (give the exterior stuff a rest). If you stay focused on looks you may end up ignoring or dumping a perfectly fantastic person without ever really giving them a chance.

Be open -- to your date's ideas about what to do on the date and express yourself honestly (AND tactfully).

Don't manhandle your date and don't rush sex!

Keep the first date brief. Leave them wishing for more, not wondering how to escape.

Stay away from someone who only talks about money and 'things' or who boasts - usually signs of deep-seated insecurity.

Don't talk about marriage and kids and long-term plans for the two of you on your first dates.

Be clear about the date, time and place...and be on time! Don't leave things hanging with "I'll call you later with the details�"

Keep topics light and keep away from controversial issues on the first date. Also, refrain from using off-color language or jokes, or making sexual references.

Try a sporting event neither one of you have ever seen live: a polo match, professional tennis tournament, golf tournament, dressage, volleyball, tractor-pull, sumo-wrestling - whatever you can agree on doing together that's different.

Collect cocktail napkins or other mementos from all the places you have been together.

Help solve a problem by writing a letter to together to the love doctor - "Dr TRuth."

Remember, games can be fun. Monopoly, computer games for two, card games, and end it all with a game of Twister.

Online Dating Tips: A Guide To Virtual Relationships

2009-09-09T10:15:00.000-07:00

Online Dating Tips: A Guide To Virtual Relationships

It used to be quite the laughing matter when someone was coerced into admitting that they had tried one of the various online dating services. It was viewed as, more or less, a last ditch effort, an act of desperation. I can still remember the day that I asked a friend of mine how he met his girlfriend and he said, with embarrassment, that he met her online. In recent years, however, online dating has really taken off and is becoming a very popular way to meet other singles. A combination of people being busier and the technological advances that make virtual communication easier have led to the rise in popularity of this once mocked activity. There are a lot of good things associated with online dating but there are also some dangers. I’d like to present a few tips for online dating that will help you in your quest to find Mr. Or Mrs. Right.

Be Specific

Don’t be intentionally vague when it comes to what you are looking for or who you are. The more vague you are, the more people you will get responses from that you will wish you wouldn’t get a response from. If you don’t like short guys, say so. If you are looking for someone over 40, say so. When someone is looking through the different profiles and comes across yours, make sure that you have information in there that will allow him to evaluate whether or not he is interested. “I enjoy romance and fun people” is not going to cut it.

Be Optimistic

In doing a little research for this article I found an amazing number of profiles that said things like “I don’t really think this will work, just wanted to see what happened”, or “I’m only doing this because someone dared me to”, or, and this was my personal favorite, “I can’t find anyone to date where I live so I just figured I would try this out”. Be positive in your description of yourself. Nobody wants to go out with someone who can’t get a date anywhere else and nobody wants to feel like they are a part of something that is designed to give losers a second chance.

Be Patient

Just because you don’t get five invitations on the first day that you log on doesn’t mean that you will single for the rest of your life. Like everything else, this may take some time. Don’t rush things.

Be Classy

If you put a profile up with pictures of you half naked and striking provocative poses, you probably are not going to get responses from genuinely interested, decent people. Don’t talk about your sexual habits or fantasies. If sex between you and your partner is something that is going to happen, great, but let the details be worked out between the two of you in private, not out in public. You don’t want to attract people who are trying to prey on someone they consider “easy”.

Be Careful

Finally, be careful about what you say and do. We all know that it is not a good idea to put your social security number and mother’s maiden name up as a part of your profile. It also is not a very good idea to post things like your street address and phone number. If you meet a stranger in person you would get to know them before telling them that kind of information and it is even more important to keep that information private in an online dating setting. Remember, everything that you put on that profile is available to anybody that wants to look at it. Start slowly and build trust. Chat online, then exchange numbers. Meet in a public place quite a few times before you invite a person to your home or go to theirs. Be safe and you will be happy.

And Finally…

Have fun! Online dating is a great way to meet people with similar lifestyles and interests. You will have the opportunity to meet people that will enrich your life in so many ways. And, not if you are lucky, but if you are wise, perhaps you will meet the one person who completes you and who is completed by you. And when people ask you how you met, you can tell them with no shame whatsoever, "We met online!"

Wanchil Colin for Date Real Singles. He is 27 years of age, grew up in the up State of New York, have a bachelor's degree, travel quit a bit in all the U.S. states, dated all types of women, been in many relationships but none was as succeful as he wanted them to be so he decided to have a professinal website http://www.daterealsingles.com where professional single men and women can date and hopefully get married and live happly after.

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Flirting Tips For Men to Charm Any Woman

2009-08-13T09:41:00.000-07:00

Flirting Tips For Men to Charm Any Woman

Flirting (if you don't already know) is the indirect advertising of sexual interest between a man and a woman. It's how 'adults' communicate with each other in a sexual way, instead of directly saying something "Hey, I'd like to have sex with you tonight or sometime soon. Would you like to have sex with me?"

When you flirt with a woman, it actually says to her "I'm attracted to you sexually and am considering having sex with you". Flirting also asks the woman "Are you interested in me in a sexual way?"

If you then know what to look for in a woman's response, you will see her responding with a clear "Yes" or "No" based on the changes in her body language, words and behavior.

In a minute, I'm going to teach you how to tell if a woman is interested. However, for now – let's look at a way that you can flirt with women. One of the most powerful flirting tips for men is to add in a cheeky smile when interacting with women.

The cheeky smile is not an 'over the top' type of cheeky smile. It's relaxed, confident and slightly mischievous. Try it now.

It's best used 1-2 times during a 5-minute interaction with a woman, especially when she is telling you a story or talking about anything sex-related.

The reason the cheeky smile works is that it's an indirect advertising of your sexual interest in her. However, because you are not explicitly saying that you want to have sex with her, the woman will think, "What does that smile mean? Does he like me, or?"

She will then try to find out if you do like her, by flirting back at you. This, of course, is a VERY good thing.

...but, how about you?

When you interact with women, are you able to create the exciting and sexually arousing feelings that are created by flirting? Or, are you often being too nice and seen as 'just a friend' by women?

When you know how to flirt with women properly, you will see a MASSIVE change in the way women treat you.For example: When I'm out at a shopping mall, I am able to use another flirting technique to have women smiling and flirting with me, even before I meet them.

If you're looking for flirting tips for men that give you the edge over other guys, then this is definitely it. I use it all the time with women and my friends are often at a loss as to how I get the hottest of women, giving me shy, girly and flirty looks.

It's easy.

All you have to do (actually, it takes a little bit of practice!) is use a subtle version on the cheeky smile, added with (this is the most important flirting ingredient of all) a slight squint of your eyes while maintaining confident eye contact.

Do that properly and women WILL respond in ways that you've never seen before.

When I started using the flirting tips I've just shared with you, I went from being seen as a 'just a friend' to being able to meet women during the day or night and walk away with their phone number in minutes, then set up a date that would lead to sex and relationships.

Flirting really is the key ingredient that will separate you from all the other guys in a woman's eyes.

If you want more flirting tips for men (including what to say and ways to touch women in a flirtatious way), then simply enter your name and e-mail below.

Source:http://www.themodernman.com/flirting_tips_for_men.html

How To French Kiss

2009-08-13T09:37:00.000-07:00

How To French Kiss

Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tongue.
Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.

Tips:

Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!

Make a Girl Want to Kiss You

2009-02-02T11:07:00.000-08:00

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If you do not have a girl friend, or have one and you think she might be getting turned off, follow these tips and they will help.

The Steps you need to do

1. Have great lips. No girl wants to kiss a guy with chapped, hard, cut-up lips! You should use chap stick frequently. Do not overdo it in such a way that you have a big clump of chapstick somewhere on your lips.

2. Don't be caught licking your lips! It might be "sexy" to guys when girls lick their lips, but some girls find it annoying or strange when a boy does this.

3. Make sure you have good dental hygiene. Brush teeth twice a day and don't forget to floss.

4. Keep mints in your pocket. Don't use gum too much; it's not as effective as mints because with gum, you produce more saliva.

5. Make sure you do not smell offensive. If you do, then don't even think of approaching the girl. Girls have very sensitive noses.

6. Have a lot of eye contact with the girl. If you are quiet she may think you don't like her.

7. Girls want to kiss guys they are attracted to. Girls don't expect you to look perfect, but you must look presentable.

8. Be thoughtful and considerate of her: open doors, buy her candy and flowers, send love notes or text messages or talk on msn/aim.# go to www.spaz-junkey.tk

More Advice

· Be yourself and do not be nervous! (Your nervousness only makes the girl nervous, and if she isn't nervous then that means you are doing well). Just "keep it real" and you will be fine! Be cool!

· Don't make her wait so long for another kiss - when you have the chance just kiss her.

· When a girl looks your way, try touching the sides of your mouth casually. Her first thought in her head would be kissing you.

· A way to let get her more comfortable is to hug her often, or put your arm around. Girls like this because they feel protected and safe. This will also breakig the touching barrier.

What a woman asks & what a woman wants

2009-01-19T11:02:00.000-08:00

What a woman asks & what a woman wants

Since some women are kind of "complicated" when it comes to express their wishes in clear words (please read It is your Duty to use Words) there CAN BE A REAL DIFFERENCE in what a woman says and what she wants. Thus when you are too friendly (= make her every wish come true) while dating for the first time, it may symbolize that you simply do what she asks for and not what she needs.

There are even some jokes regarding this:

What she says	What she means
"Maybe"	"No!"
"We need"	"I want!"
"I am too fat"	"Tell me I'm beautiful!"

In other words: She knows very well that sometimes she wants you to read her real mind. She knows that she needs to cry sometimes or that she has ups and downs. If you are too friendly (= sensitive) it can mean that her everchanging mood involves you so deeply that you won't be her stable rock, who KNOWS what to do. You have to show that whatever happens YOU keep an eye on the overall situation. That you can hold your position. That you can have your OWN opinion of what she needs and what not. That you know when a "yes" is a "no". That you know when her "oh, nothing" is in reality "something really bad".

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Learn how to palm read

2008-12-17T08:34:00.000-08:00

Learn how to palm read

This is a extremely appealing system because combines quite a few tips on this site: Learn how to read the future from her palm:

You can hold her hand while reading.
Reading palms is always good for fun, smiles and a hassle-free ambiance. Women love that.
You can get sexual without being sexual. You just tell the "information" as an "autonomous" third party. It will put her in a sexual disposition anyway.
You get her fantasies going
You make her interested (everybody wants to know the future)
You make her feel interesting (since you even want to "read her life's destiny")
You do her a favor (since palm reading usually costs something)
You show that you are something special (not many people can read palms)
You show her that you are empathic and divine and non-materialistic (not many boys are esoteric-minded)
You learn a lot of things about her (since she will be telling you "Yes, this is true" or "No, I don't think so")
You show her that she can be your friend (since she already tells you her secrets)
You are surrounded by a mystery ("Hey, does this boy really know everything about me? Who is he anyway?")
Nearly automatically she will propose (after you have finished to read her palm) to read the palms of her girl-friends.

It takes only a palm reader book and a one or two days of reading.

Great Method Believe me

Where to find girls?

2008-10-27T06:29:00.000-07:00

Where to find girls?
How can you get a girl if you dont see one??
How suppose you gonna get a date if you dont have anyone to ask?
Yea get out and find girls...Girls are not hidden.
Just search the places where they always go.
List LOL

The following places are typical meeting places with many girls or where girls outnumber the boys

Single clubs. Dating groups.
Aerobic classes (many women!)
Fitness studios. Fitness studios are actually a "triple feature"
- In Fitness Clubs are more women than men
- You will increase also your own body fitness
- You may meet women who want to get in shape because they want to find a boy-friend themselves
Dancing schools (remember, woman LOVE a good dancer).
Adult evening classes
Pottery classes
Ballet schools (Oh, well, I don't really expect you to become a ballet dancer, but there are many long-legged girls there)
Universities with many "female" subjects as "languages", "sociology", "psychology"...
Libraries. You can start to chat with a woman when she's having a break.
Quiet bars (instead of loud discotheques).
VIP rooms in discotheques. If a famous DJ puts on the music then there are sometimes groupies. Since not every of them can get the DJ, maybe they will date you. VIP rooms are also quiet places, thus good for conversations.
Coffee shops. Woman like to sit and drink tea in a relaxed atmosphere. If you go during rush hours you are "forced" to sit next to a girl.
Places where people go after work. These can be special bars where a lot of exhausted women are, wanting to relax and open to light conversation.
Tourist places. If you live in a town with many tourists then you may consider visiting typical tourist places. Many female tourists are looking for a boy-friend. If they had one you would see them most probably hanging around together (since they are on holidays).
Supermarkets/Market places. This is a good place, since many women go food shopping. There are even some "local rules" as: "Singles meet on Friday at the frozen food section". You should check in the internet or at single clubs what is considered as a "rule".
You can even get a conversation up and going by starting to talk about food or recipes.

Signals of a female Dating Mood

2008-10-27T06:26:00.000-07:00

Signals of a female Dating Mood

How does a woman show her interest in You show that a woman is specifically interested in you. But how do women "tell" that they are ready to be approached because of a general dating mood?

Women will wear shorter skirts
Women will wear clothes that let her body "shine thru"
Women will cut out bras.
Women will use more perfume
Women will use more make-up than usual
Women will wear a redder lipstick
Women will sit with uncrossed legs or They will change the crossing often (left leg on top, right leg on top)

Warning: It may very well mean, that such women have their ovulation taking place and thus can get pregnant.

How does a woman show her interest in You?

2008-10-27T06:20:00.000-07:00

How does a woman show her interest in You?

Since a woman will hardly use words (see It is your Duty to use Words) she has other methods of showing that she is interested in YOU:

A woman will move to the rhythm of the music while looking at you
A woman will touch her breasts
A women will lean forward to you
A woman will lean towards you and talk into your ear
A woman will start to touch you (your shoulder, your arm, your thigh, your hand...)
A women will blink more
A woman will blush while being around you
A woman will blow smoke towards you (Warning! Could be a sign of disgust, too)
A woman will match her laughing to your laughing
A woman will match her drinking (= taking the drinking glass) to your drinking (this is a general sympathy rule and doesn't necessary mean sensual readiness)
A woman will with the table legs: Wrapping her legs around the table legs, touching them etc.
A woman will smile to you and raise her eyebrows
A women will keep glancing at you (probably with dilated pupils)
A women will touch/scratch her legs
A women will lick her lips, touch her front teeth with her tongue
A woman will bite her fingernail
A woman will get erected nipples (sometimes you can see that thru her clothes)
A women will play with their hair
- running with her hand thru her hair
- stroking hair
- twirling hair around her fingers
- twisting streaks
- throwing her hair off her shoulders
A women will play with her lips (biting them, touch them with a glass etc.)
A women will look right into your eyes without words and then smile
A woman will double-check her outfit and will fix it/ enhance it for you
...
And maybe most importantly: A woman will look 3 times at you:
1. She looks
2. She looks away
3. She looks
4. She looks away
5. She looks
Now you can smile at her and go to her. And I literally mean GO. Then apply all the other dating advices of this site :-) But whatever you do: Do not look down or away.

Your Ex Still Loves You?

2008-10-21T10:00:00.000-07:00

Your Ex Still Loves You?

Find if he is showing some of these signs.

Sometimes it can be a bit difficult to discern if your ex still wants you especially if they did the breaking up. What they feel, what they say... it really doesn't matter. How people act can be different from how they actually feel. However, if you want actual clues to find out if he or she still has feelings for you, there are 4 signs to keep a look out for.

(1) Keeps in Constant Contact

Okay, so you have broken up but they are still calling or texting you. Is there a reason to that contact or is it just an excuse to talk to you? By keeping in constant contact with you, it's a sign they really aren't ready to let the relationship or you go.

(2) Always Around

If your ex still wants to see you, they may show up anywhere you go. However, it'll all look like coincidence to you until they do it everyday, everywhere. Then you'll know for sure it's being done on purpose.

(3) Holding On to Material Items

Did you and your ex give things to one another? If so, are they holding onto these things? Do they still have photos of you in their wallet/purse? This is a tell-tale sign of still being in love with you.

(4) Impressions

Does it seem like your ex is bragging about their life and how well it's going without you in it? Are they looking better or working out more? If so, they may be trying to impress you with these changes or attitudes. Believe it or not, they want you to get and stay interested in them once again.

These are 4 good signs that your ex still has feelings for you. But the question is... do you? Sometimes it's hard to distinguish your feelings in stressful times but would you like to give the relationship a second chance? If so, don't come across as needy because while they may be dropping hints of wanting reconciliation, they can get turned off just as easily with this emotion. Remember to cool things off for a time, sort through your feelings and make a decision then.

How to Kiss a Girl and Blow Her Mind With Pleasure

2008-09-22T14:25:00.000-07:00

How to Kiss a Girl and Blow Her Mind With Pleasure

So you want to know how to kiss a girl and have her knees buckle? I will lead you in this article in accelerating your skills as a kisser.

Most men have not taken the time to study the fine art of kissing a woman.

To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you.

If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you.

Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing.

After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.

Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%.

Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her.

One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention.

People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed.

The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss.

Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not. So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes.

Secondly, people who are like each other "like" each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages

By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss.

She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head.

Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she's putting on your lips.

Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:

There's the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip.

There's the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip.

There's the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.

There's the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted.

The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other.

As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute.

Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it's a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she's doing.

Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other.

Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment.

Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.

If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth.

Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips.

Let her take the lead first in beginning to dance with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.

Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance.

If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper.

There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, "I absolutely love kissing you", or "You are such an incredible woman", or "You are so yummy, I just want to devour you", etc.

When you say these things in your head or to her it's going to magnify the potency of the kiss manifold.

This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you'll know what I mean. This is what will really blow her mind with pleasure and have her melt into you because you are adoring her in the way she has fantasized about by mirroring how she wants to be kissed.

To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch. Stroke her face gently as you separate briefly before lightly engaging her lips again.

Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her.

Coordinate the way you kiss her with how you masterfully touch her face, hair, neck, and back to create incredibly delicious sensations for her. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her.

Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures.

Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you're building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time.

Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again.

Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman.

Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss.

The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life.

Savor every moment of the kiss with her and have this naturally lead you to deeper sensual and sexual exploration that will blow her mind.

Mastering the fine art on how to kiss a girl is only the tip of the iceberg on bringing your woman absolute incredible pleasures that she does not even know is possible.

Author: Neo Young

How to Flirt and Attract Single Women in Nightclubs

2008-09-02T09:10:00.000-07:00

How to Flirt and Attract Single Women in Nightclubs

While you are cruising the nightclub, keep your flirting eyes out for the woman that is alone. She is usually the easiest to meet and attract. She is there for a reason and you can be the lucky man to fulfill that reason.

Also while walking, keep that sexy-looking gleam in your eye. Literally try to melt single women with your eyes. If you make eye contact with a woman, make sure you give her a friendly smile and if she is close enough to you, simply say, "Hi." That is all it takes and with practice it will come easy.

If you make eye contact with some woman across the way from you and she turns away, don't give up on her. Try to make eye contact again and smile at her. If she smiles back, approach her immediately! This is an opportunity that must not be passed up because it's an open invitation for you to come over and introduce yourself or ask her to dance.

Whatever you do, don't stare at a woman. This is impolite and nobody likes to be stared at. Just look at her long enough to make it quite clear that you see her and then immediately look away. What you are saying with your eyes when you look at her this way is, "I know you are there and I would not dream of invading your privacy." Just keep looking at her off and on until you establish some meaningful eye contact and exchange smiles.

So, there you have it, the art of flirting with single women in nightclubs. What really amazes me is these guys at the nightclubs that don't even flirt with single women. They just stare into space or look down at the floor. If they do accidently catch the eye of a woman, they look away as quickly as possible and let it go at that. They just don't know what they are missing and what they are missing out on is meeting single women the easy way.

So my friend, if you're like this, make it a point to stop staring into space and start flirting with women. Flirt with every single woman in sight. It's a lot of fun and you will be attracting more single women than ever before.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Signs that your girlfriend wants to end your Relation

2008-09-02T08:56:00.000-07:00

Signs that your Girlfriend wants to End your Relation.
Here some of the most important

List of symptoms that your relationship is in trouble:

She openly talks about previous relationships and how great one of her ex-boyfriends was.
You are spending less time together and she turns down dates more often.
She is not as affectionate towards you and has lost interest in sex with you.
She is verbally abusive towards you and treats you like a dog.
She is constantly picking fights with you over silly, petty matters.
She tells you that she needs to spend time alone without you. In other words, she needs her space.
She's very quiet and doesn't talk to you like she did in the past.
She doesn't share her feelings about things anymore.
You use to talk on the phone for what seemed like hours. Now, she doesn't talk for very long and always seems in a hurry to get off the phone.
She tells you that she would like to start dating other guys and doesn't want to be tied down.
She rarely picks up the phone when you call anymore. She is deliberately screening her calls, so she doesn't have to talk to you.
Yea my friend she is ending your relation:(

How to Ask a Woman to Dance if She is in a Group of Women

2008-09-02T08:53:00.000-07:00

How to Ask a Woman to Dance When She s not Alone.

Has this ever happened to you? You see the hot and sexy "girl of dreams" at a bar or nightclub and you're dying to ask her to dance. There's a problem though. She's with a group of her girlfriends and they are carrying on and laughing and talking and not really noticing anything else. They just seem to be absorbed with themselves. You know what I'm talking about. You've seen groups of girls and how they act.

Well anyway, you want to ask her to dance, but you kind of feel like a fool approaching her in a group of girlfriends. Here's the wrong approach a lot of guys use: You approach her and ask her to dance and she says no. Then you ask her friend, she says no. Then you go down the line and ask her other friends to dance and they say no. You have just made a complete fool of yourself and the girls are snickering behind your back. Don't set yourself up for rejection. Here's the approach to use:

Always remember this fact: It's hard to get one of the girls in a group to separate. But, there's a way around this; Walk up to all of them at once with a friendly smile on your face and say, "Would any of you girls like to dance?" There's a good chance one of them will dance with you and perhaps even the one that you were initially attracted to. This opens the door to dance with the other girls in the group also. Then you can determine which one you hit it off with and pursue her for a romantic encounter.

Does this method work 100% of the time? No, there are variables involved. Maybe they are not ready to dance yet, they all have boyfriends, or maybe they are just not attracted to you through no fault of your own. Sure, the whole group may reject you but you increase your chances of getting the girls to dance by asking them to dance as a group.

Personally, I always look for single women that are alone to ask to dance. If they are with just one girlfriend, I will ask a girl to dance and that's not usually a problem. Your best bet is to hit up on girls that are alone.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Ten Tips to Get Your Woman

2008-09-02T08:50:00.000-07:00

10 TIPS TO GET YOUR GIRL ON A DATING

1. When with a woman on a date, under no circumstances whatsoever, look at and flirt with other women. This is just plain rude and disrespectful. It's very degrading to a woman and makes her feel very unimportant. It really hurts their feelings, especially if she is attracted to you.

2. Don't play head games - Don't just use single women for sex and string them along with no intentions for emotional commitment. The worse thing you can do is to tell them that you love them and not even mean it. And, even worse is to tell them that you love them just to get them in bed for sex. Don't get involved with a woman you have no interest in or desire to have a relationship with and suddenly tell her after several dates and sexual relations, "I don't want a girlfriend right now" or "I'm not interested in having a relationship." They will feel used, hurt and abused. If all you want from a woman is just sex, just be honest and up front with her and tell her, "I'm not interested in being tied down in a relationship with you and I would prefer to have a sexual relationship only with no strings attached."

3. Don't make women feel self-concious by making comments on things that she is self-concious about such as her weight, her big ass, large nose, small eyes, hairy arms, pale skin, bony legs, big thighs, her protruding stomach, birthmark, stretch marks, acne, blemishes, etc.

4. Listen to women when they talk. Focus all your attention on every word she says. Don't talk to her while on the telephone and try to watch television at the same time. Pay attention to her and make her feel important and special. Women do not like to be ignored.

5. Be considerate of a woman's family and friends. In this imperfect world, we are not exactly crazy about everyone we meet, but at least make your best effort possible to get along with and form a bond with her family and friends. Here's why: If you get along fine with them, they won't be so inclined to pressure her to dump you. You would be surprised what an influence her friends and family have on her relationships with men. Also, keep in close touch with your own friends and relatives. They will resent her for you forgetting about them and spending all your time with your girlfriend.

6. Remember that single women are unique individuals - They are not a combination of all the women that you have dated and had relationships with. Maybe you had women cheat on you or act crabby and bitchy all the time. You think all single women are like this. Get rid of this attitude immediately! You just can't judge all single women by your experiences of the past. All women are different and don't judge all women as being mean because of a few bad experiences. There are lots of sweet and lovely single women out there that will treat you right. You just have to find them.

7. Treat single women like ladies - Literally, treat them like a queen. Open doors for them, light their cigarettes, pour their champagne, tell them how pretty and sexy they look, compliment them on their clothes, and offer them your arm. Just make them feel special and desirable. And giving her, flowers, gifts, cards, and poetry is a good idea too. Treat a woman like a lady and you will melt her heart and make her want to become intimate with you.

8. Act like a human being when around a single woman - Do your belching and farting in private. And don't make sick comments about your desire for killing cats, kicking dogs, shooting animals, and any other off the wall comments.

9. Here's a real no-no: If a woman is acting crabby and bitchy, you say, "You must be getting your period." Women are very sensitive to a remark like this and make her resent you. There are other factors that contribute to a woman feeling a little cranky. It can be stress from work, family, friends, and maybe even you getting on her nerves.

10. Always apply the Golden Rule around women - Treat her like you want to be treated.

Follow these ten important keys to getting along with women and I guarantee you that you will have more success in getting women more interested in you. Even to the point that she may fall for you and want to share her warm and writing body with you for some hot passionate sex. I'm sure this is one reward you won't mind receiving for your efforts.

How to Use Your Sense of Humor to get your girl??

2008-09-02T08:42:00.000-07:00

How to Use Your Sense of Humor to Attract Women

When on a date girls love to laugh and enjoy a boy with a great sense of humor. If you know some good jokes, share them with your date. It will make a good impression on them and they will think of you as a guy that's a lot of fun to be with her.

First you go to know a little bit the woman of course, if you don't know the woman very well I would stay away from some ordinary jokes. She might be offended and could even cause her not to want another date with you. So, in my opinion you are better off telling clean jokes and not too racy.

What if you don't know any good jokes? That's no problem. Go to your local book store or some magazine shop and they will have some good joke books. Then, you can practice these jokes on your friends before you try them out on your dates.

Don't tell bad jokes. You need to make her laugh and if you tell crummy jokes you may bore her. Also, Maxim Magazine,and others of same kind always have a section featuring some good jokes. And if you go to comedy clubs try and remember some good jokes that the comedians tell. If the audience is dying laughing, then it's a good bet that when you tell the same joke to your date, she will think you're funny and admire your sense of humor.

Top 5 Online Dating Tips !!Get Your Dream Girl

2008-09-02T08:27:00.000-07:00

Get Your Dream Girl
How do you get her attention? There are a few rules that every man should live by when dating online. Below is a list of the top five things every man should know when looking for love. 1. Be Polite

One thing you have to remember is that you don't have the normal advantage of your natural good looks at this point. You only have your words. Starting a conversation with vulgar language or inappropriate messages is a sure fire way to get deleted from someones inbox. If you would not say it in public, do not say it online.

2.Have pictures on your profile

Be sure to have pictures on your profile. Make sure that they are recent pictures. The more pictures, the better your chances are of meeting someone that will really like you for you. Lots of men do not even bother including a picture with their profile. This gives you an edge and makes you stand out from the hundreds of others who for whatever reason, do not include a picture.

3.Be honest

Being honest is probably one of the most important things that you can do when searching for love online. If you seriously want to find someone special, you are doing yourself more harm than good by being untruthful or sending misleading pictures. Most women are not dumb and will be able to see right through the lies. Women have much more respect for a man who is humble and honest.

4.Contribute to site forums and blogs.

Being an active member of your dating site is a great way to let all the single women on your site know a little bit about you, your personality and opinions. Consider it politics. Why wait for great women to stumble upon your profile?

5. Make an appointment

Everyone has a different life schedule. Be sure and include a time that you will be online again in your messages, so that if someone is interested, they can be there waiting!

Refrain from asking for personal information

Although the first question on your mind may be the location of your new found interest, do not start out a conversation by asking personal things like where they are or what their e-mail address is. This can make lots of women uncomfortable and can also make you look like one of those dating site scammers!

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How To Approach Girl

2008-08-20T13:39:00.000-07:00

How To Approach a Girl
What does it communicate if you DO APPROACH during the day?

-Dominance
-Know what you want and you go after it
-Your Spontaneous
-That your unique

Again most guys DON'T approach during the day...it just doesn't happen in reality.

Imagine a beautiful woman prancing about a bar and be honest and think about this, after one (1) lap of the bar AND ONLY ONE LAP she would
have been approached in some way or another at least 7-10 times and that's not including sneaky/scary/pervy stares from random guys.

Competition is feirce at night and especially in bar's.

During the day however guys tend to keep the staring at a minimum either because their friends aren't around to see 'how cool they are' for giving woman dirty stares/comments, or they don't have the confidence which by the way is very natural during the day...

Where to go?
-Shopping Malls
-Food Courts-Bookstalls
-Festivals/Markets
-In the Streets
-Myer/David Jones/Barnes & Noble (not only stocks clothing but has a store load of attractive women working for them PLUS heaps of hotties shop there)

What to Say During the Day?

ALWAYS have something default to say if you cant think of anything...

"excuse me.....do you know where XYZ restraunt is from here?" " Do you know if they sell Cheesecake?

"Well actually don't worry about XYZ do you know of a good cheesecake shop instead? but it must have a chilled laid back atmosphere"

(if they're reading a book) "Hey I have to say that is an awesome book....do you want to know the ending?"

"Hey I need your quick opinion on something....do you think I look fat in these pants"?

Whatever you say make it look as though your genuine and that you 'in the rush of the moment' decided to ask her, as opposed to spending hours having memorised it to say to the next hottie you spot. : )

WARNING-it must not be sleazy

Always have a default conversation starter...simple and with that said:

Do not Say....
-I like the weather, beautiful day isn't it
-What do you do?
-Where do you live?
-I Love you...

These from experience don't work....

7 Ways to Drive a Man Crazy!

2008-08-20T13:36:00.000-07:00

Drive your Man So Crazy in 7 Tips

It's unbelievable the amount of bad advice there is out there on how to seduce a man or if they give you advice they forget to tell you how to use it properly. So here are a couple of tips on what to do and what not to do to drive a man wild and an instruction manual.

1) Dress in a way that makes you feel sexy and also flatters your figure. Let's face it some of us look ridiculous in stilettos. Red is almost always a good color. Try a red slinky dress and comfortable undergarments. Those torture devices they sell to suck in our guts look great under the dress but are not sexy at all when you are trying to yank them off for a wild night of pleasure.

2) Pay attention to what he has to say for a change. Yes you can talk about yourself but a man finds it really refreshing when a woman allows him to have his own time in the spotlight.

3) Don't talk about your ex. If he asks, keep it short and sweet. You are starting fresh with this guy. No need to bring in the ghost of past relationships. You are perfect to him in the beginning. There is no reason to make him wonder if the last guy who dumped you was right.

4)Wear a light attractive scent. This means layering scents. Bathe in scented bath oils first. Then apply a light powder in the same scent. Finally spray the same scented perfume in front of you and walk into the mist. Do this about 45 minutes before you see him. If you overpower him with your scent, instead of wanting to edge a bit closer he will be running for the nearest exit.

5) If you bring him back to your place make sure it is dimly lit. Soft lighting minimizes lines and wrinkles and gives your skin a bit of a glow. Keep candles handy or lamps that have adjustable lighting. In soft lighting you can be his dream woman and you can feel a thousand times better about undressing in front of him.

6) Do a strip tease for him. Now I am not talking about a ten dollar hooker strip tease. I mean a slow undressing. Have him lie on the bed to watch, as you slowly slip out of your dress, then your undies and finally your stockings and shoes. Make him wait a bit.

7)Explore his body in detail. Consider it a five course meal. Drive him absolutely wild by discovering all the hidden spots he didn't even know existed. Most women just lie there and let the guy do all the work. Participate and you have just blown past most of the women he has had sex with.

by Caterina Christakos

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How to Give a Woman an Orgasm.Pleasure Tips

2008-08-20T11:21:00.000-07:00

How to Give a Woman an Orgasm

Pleasure her... learn it

Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experience you can have and one of the best ways at pleasing a woman.

It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course if done correctly, it'll make her orgasm, multiple times!

Many women prefer oral sex to intercourse, and for most, it's the easiest way to have them orgasm with a man. You can have the smallest member on the planet, but if you give great 'head', you'll be appreciated as a fabulous lover. Not only that, but as a bonus, she'll definitely talk and brag about you to all her friends. Finally, a woman who finds a man who knows how to perform oral sex knows she has found a treasure and she'll make sure to do what it takes not to let you go. This is one rare customer and she knows it!

In the end though, oral sex is what you make it. You need to practice often and be able to pick up on signals from your partner if you want to be good. You must also appreciate and enjoy it, otherwise you'll be subpar at best. Let's get on to the many great aspects of this subject so that you may get the most from it.

The first thing to realize is that even the most gorgeous women can be shy about their bodies. You need to tell her it's beautiful. Take a few moments to tell her which parts you like best... this will be her trust to allow you to that sweet nectar that is down between her legs.

Now stop and look at what you see. Exquisite, isn't it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special.

Women tend to be much more verbal than men and much more in tune with their emotions which means that they will respond well to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it. Remember to keep complimenting her and tell her how beautiful she is. Touch and stroke the body parts that you talk about.

Now back to the pussy. Look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.

Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet (you can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her) and please make sure that your finger nails are trimmed.

Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it.

Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit.

Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently.

Tongue-fuck her. This feels define. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up tot he top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin.

Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!'

There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who's a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him.

But back to your pussy eating session...There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, curing or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking.

Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover.

When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.

If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms too? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.

The last words of wisdom that I can leave for you is the following: After you've made her orgasm, which subsequently should make her your slave in the future, do not leave her alone! I repeat, do not just get up and leave, do not run your victory lap, and do not shove your member in any of her available orifices. No, no my friend. You want to make some emotional love to her. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. You want to solidify your position in her mind. While a man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss, a woman by nature needs some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex.

Top 10 Romantic Songs

2008-08-12T07:03:00.000-07:00

Top 10 Most Romantic Songs

My Heart Will Go On - Celine Dion

Gosh you may hate this but it is a masterpiece of romantic melodies with the rousing crescendo towards the end. Who wouldn't want to stand at the front of a ship with arms outstretched. Whilst now the subject of parody in some areas, it still brings a lump to our throat. Ask yourself would you die for your girl ? She'd like to think you would...

Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton

An ode to your loved one and sung with heartfelt honesty by Mr. Clapton. The beauty of this song is in its romantic simplicity. A song about being proud to be with someone, a song of compliments and a song of love, you can't do better than this for classic romantic sentiment.

Don't Want to Miss a Thing - Aerosmith

Indeed I don't and neither do you which is why this song is such a romantic masterpiece. The gladiator of romantic modern classics in fact. Steven Tyler in full throttle, rousing lyrics and chorus and superb video to boot. The sentiment is there, the voice the attitude and even the opening few words are class "I could stay awake just to hear you breathing...". Get playing it now.

Wicked Game - Chris Isaac

It took me about 30 listens and views of the video before I grasped the true meaning of this song. Probably due to my own stupidity. Once grasped however it climbed up my all time top 10. Essentially a song constructed from different tenses about the affect a woman has on the male singer from was to is now. What a wicked thing this woman does to Chris who sings like a bird. It helped enormously that Helena Christensen was Mr. Isaacs partner in both life and video at the time of release and only helps heighten its meaning. Gorgeous.

No Ordinary Love - Sade

Sade always did have that kind of seductive voice that made you want to get naked. It was for no small reason that her voice was the sound of the entire wine bar sophistication of the mid 1980's. Often sadly now associated with a movie about selling your body for $1 million, the song should be better remembered not for the Robert Redford & Demi Moore film it accompanied, or the dreadful Sade video of a lonely mermaid, but for the soft undertones of the melody, the lilting tones of the song, the sadness, and the sheer romance of its lyrics. A beautiful song superbly scripted and one to make your heart melt, yearn and stretch. Moving.

We've Only Just Begun - The Carpenters

Cheesy and corny? Absolutely not, a romantic masterpiece without equal. If you haven't played this in some time just listen to Karen's voice. It is like listening to perfection, like chocolate, like silk, with inflection and emotion. My silly words here cannot do this song justice, it just needs to be placed. A romantic all time classic, even more so when related to Karen's own tragic demise one month short of her 33rd birthday.

Wishing on a Star - Rose Royce

This song appears in many a top ten list from its initial ear-piercing opening to the drop in tone as we move into melodic verse to refrain. The sentiment of the song is beautiful and captures in an instant the essence of what romance should be. A modern work of art and there was no way I was leaving this out.

Sexual Healing - Marvin Gaye

Original, sexy and very very soave, this is music to make love by. What makes this song so romantic and so sexy is the way Mr. Gaye trapped every word and made us swallow it like oysters with champagne. Its late in the evening, the meal was excellent, she is sitting in front of the fire looking exquisite, what are you waiting for men? There could have been a mini baby boom down to this song.

The Day Before You Came - ABBA

I have always had a real soft spot for ABBA and this has remained unchanged over the last 25 years. A super group of true stature and without parallel in terms of music craftsmanship - song after song. It comes as a surprise therefore to some that I select this particular melody for this list. The fact is, the song deals with some extraordinarily powerful emotions and romantic ideas over its 6 minutes of so in length. Essentially Agnetha is telling us a story in retrospect about a relationship from beginning to end by telling with huge irony what her day was like before you walked through the door. Spine tingling and beautiful and the video is great too.

Me and Mrs. Jones - Al Green

Smooch music, kissing music, velvety notes, deep luscious tones, laid back lyrics. Who knows. The point is that this is Soul from the soul - maybe food for the soul if I want to use clichés. It's smooth, it's sexy it's an afternoon away from work with your sexy lover. Its romantic, it's slightly naughty and it makes us feel good. So good it made it into this top 10.

Source:http://www.topdatingtips.com/romantic-songs.htm

Top 10 Dating Tips

2008-08-12T06:53:00.000-07:00

Top 10 Dating Tips
There are no magic formulas,and no top dating tips that wave a magic wand. But there are some essential facts that you should always Keep in mind along the way.

Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, decide who you are looking for, do your research and be ready to commit to dating. Half heartedness won't work. Also prepare for some let downs along the way but don't take dating too seriously either.
Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself.
Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't go overboard and look like someone you are not but maybe its time to throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. People appreciate appearance.
Have a good think about what your dating goals are and timescales. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.
Sort out your confidence levels in advance. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Do all the things that will boost your confidence from avoiding negative friends (often the married ones) to attending the right kind of social functions. Couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.
Choose those you have a good chance of dating, don't aim low but do aim realistically. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous then good for you, but be prepared and be realistic about your chances.
Work out in advance where in your neighborhood you are likely to meet people and join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups, anything where you are likely to meet potential partners. The kind of partners you are looking for. I know its a cliché but you will not meet people by staying indoors.
Take time off from dating occasionally if its not going well or causing dating fatigue. Dating is an ongoing process and so recharging the batteries and keeping the confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. So date in phases if necessary.
Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The fact is, most people are interesting and whilst you may not be out there looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.
Never ever make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. In keeping with this do not sleep with your dates early on if you want them to progress, so keep sex until later. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. Peak too early and you have little left to offer and emotions may never have had the time to develop.

French Kissing – Kissing Tips for a Kiss to Remember!

2008-08-07T11:36:00.000-07:00

French Kissing – Kissing Tips for a Kiss to Remember
Let’s find out with some tips guaranteed to make you partner melt and want more.

1. Kissing involves the whole body

Kissing is not simply about putting your tongue in your partner’s mouth, there is much more to it than that.

A kiss should be an expression of affection from your whole body.

When you kiss make sure your body language is correct and the way to do this is to relax.

When you hold your partner she will feel if you are relaxed, if you are like a stiff dead weight passion can’t flow, so relax and dot be self conscious.

When you go to kiss her move your body close and hold her gently.

The main point to remember is:

2. Kissing is a two way action

When you kiss move slowly at first and then start to be explore your partner’s mouth with your tongue use a firm tongue and start to alternate between slower and stronger moves.

The point to keep in mind is for a kiss to be successful you both need to enjoy it. Everyone likes to be kissed in a different way i.e. some like soft slow kissing others like more wild action and you need to find out.

When you kiss your partner you will find out how she likes it by her reaction to you and you can simply follow the lead and she will do the same with you.

Kissing is an inter action between two people and should flow naturally if you are both relaxed.

3. Surprise & Variety

The way to make a kiss memorable is not to let your partner know exactly what is coming next. If she is expecting you to kiss her hard slow down and be gentle – Make her wait and tease her.

Try slow and quick movements hard and soft etc and always make sure you do it with:

4. Passion

Passion indicates desire and comes from within. If you are relaxed and follow your heart you will be lost in the kiss.

Kissing is one of the most intimate gestures humans can make and it’s a fact that 90% of women and a similar amount of men wished there partner paid more attention to it.

5. Kissing stopping and starting

You can’t simply kiss continuously; you need to breathe so when your lips part use this moment to target a key erogenous zone: The neck.

Kissing the neck and going back to the lips is a real turn on and most people love it. In fact in women it is one of the key erogenous zones.

Another great way to add passion to a kiss is to use your hands.

Not simply to hold your partner but to explore her back - Squeeze her behind rub her back, touch her shoulders and play with her hair – Most women simply adore having there hair played with, so take advantage!

Finally

A kiss is much more than simply touching lips it’s an expression of love, passion and desire.

If you are relaxed you will be lost in the moment and the kiss will flow naturally.

Make sure you relax and use your body, add variety and surprise and whoever you kiss, let them know you’re enjoying it and show plenty of passion.

Kissing is a great physical and emotional experience and is not just for teenagers!

How to Tell if a Guy Likes you - Five Signs He's Interested

2008-08-01T01:01:00.000-07:00

How to Tell if a Guy Likes you - Five Signs He's Interested

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?

Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:

1. He tells someone

Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.

2. The look

He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.

3. The conversation

Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.

4. He appears unexpectedly

He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.

5. EVERYONE likes you

Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.

These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.

7 Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating On You

2008-08-01T00:23:00.000-07:00

7 Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating On You

Cheating is the worst form of destruction to your relationship or marriage; it is already considered a betrayal of the vows they took when they got married. The discovery of the act of cheating by the other half can either break the marriage or make it stronger depending on the strength of their love for one another.

Cheating generally means that you are not fully satisfied with your current partner or you feel that something is missing in the relationship. If you were completely in love and happy within your relationship, why it might happen that your partner have an affair?

Trust is a big reason, not of your partner, but yourself. Probably for some time you have sensed something is different or questioned the change of behavior in your partner.

Nobody deserves to be cheated on, no matter what state your marriage is in and if you believe your partner is having an affair now is the time to check it out and do a little investigation just to be sure.

Start by looking for the obvious things such as a change in the way your partner dresses, a sudden desire to look good, a change in work patterns, an unusual interest in the gym, secrecy over phone calls or emails, a loss of intimacy in your marriage, lack of sexual interest or distance between you that never used to exist. In the worst case you may spy her.

A cheating wife can cause much emotional trauma, not to mention the harm it could cause a family.

Here are some important clues that might help you to find out if your partner is having an affair.

1.Changes in appearance and attitude. She has a sudden preoccupation with her appearance. She is more interested on how she dresses; go often to a hair salon and even to gym, even if this wasn't her main priority before.

2.Lessened intimacy. If in the past you used to share everything with your wife and then suddenly she seems distanced and clams up when you try to discuss intimate things, it could mean that she has already distanced herself emotionally and mentally from you. She is suddenly frigid and loses any interest in doing anything with her husband.

3.She's being secretive. She's no longer sharing her daily events with you. She might avoid you because she feels guilty. Don't get paranoid and suspicious, ask her if everything is ok and tell her she's been acting differently lately.

4.Disinterest in family. If your wife is no longer excited to meet you at the door from work there must be a problem here. Or when your partner feels the sudden need to go out try to find a reason to accompany her. If she comes up with a reason that she had to go on her own push the issue, not too much but just enough to see if she becomes more uncomfortable.

5.Less arguing and fighting. She used to get angry if you didn't want to come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren't enraging her. This could be a good thing, but you wonder why she no longer cares.

6.More phone and internet. In the last time she speaks a lot at the telephone using a low voice or whisper on the phone and hangs up quickly. Maybe she set up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Watch out because she might buy a cell phone and doesn't let you know. Ask her if she is being true with you and if she becomes accusatory then it is obvious that she is cheating you.

7.She's always late. In the past she never came home late but now this happens more and more. Her explanation is that she had to stay more at the office because she has a lot of work to do. Or she goes to the store and comes home four hours later. This is really a reason to worry.

Cheating spouses often look and act guilty, give a general feeling that something isn’t right. They try and avoid meaningful conversations, keep everything at a general and non intimate level.

By: Ovi Dogar

5 Simple Romantic Date Ideas

2008-07-30T15:43:00.000-07:00

5 Simple Romantic Date Ideas
1) A picnic in the middle of your living room, with a nice bottle of wine, candles and the music of your choice.
2) A candle lit dinner in your own backyard, patio or terrace. Use the stars as your backdrop and the candles to create intimacy.
3) If there is a river or lake nearby see if there is a company that does champagne river or boat tours. As your guide relates the local habitat, you and your honey can snuggle under a blanket and share a toast to your relationship.
4) Picnic in your local park or at your local beach. Enjoy feeding each other finger foods and fresh berries.
5) Call your local culinary school and see if you can hire one of the chefs in training to cook for the two of you. There prices may be more reasonable than a dinner out, plus
1)you don’t have to worry about how much you drink
2) the mess is cleaned up for you
3) you can slip into the bedroom and into your lingerie, while he tips your chef and sends him or her on her way
These are just a few simple date ideas, that you can try with your sweetie without breaking the bank.

About The Author:

Caterina Christakos is the author of the Seduction Game for Women. To learn even more ways of adding spice to your relationship go to: http://www.seductiondiva.com

6 Rules to Choose the Best Place for the First Date

2008-07-30T15:41:00.000-07:00

6 Rules to Choose the Best Place for the First Date
Let’s assume for a minute that you have met a great girl and that you want more than a one-night-stand. You want to have a good time with her because you want to develop a long-term relationship.

I believe that there isn’t a perfect general place for all first dates, just the perfect place for you and your future date. One where you have been with your ex date and it was great, could be a wrong choice for your date with another girl.

Make sure your first date will be a success choosing the right place. There are some rules and criteria that will help you to make the best decision:

1. For your very first meeting it is suggested that you only make it brief but fun, inexpensive and relaxing.

2. Chose the place for the first date according your date's age and lifestyle. Maybe you don't know too much about the women you are going to ask for a date, but you can make a clue about her, looking to how she is dressing and watching the type of people she is hanging around.

3. Particularly on a first date, you may wish to leave early, or so may they. An exit plan for both guys and girls is always useful.

4. Dates that will make you interact with the other person and share both your interests will not only teach you more about them, but also show how compatible you actually are. Sporting events, concerts and picnics are great places for first dates.

You can talk, and being outside, everything feels less claustrophobic. It's easy and relaxed and clothing usually isn't a problem

5. It makes a difference if you can find something that she will remember for a long time. If in your area is an event like circus, carnival, festival, don't miss it and you two will have more fun than at a coffee place that's for sure. There wouldn't be any pressure; you’ll only have to enjoy the company.

6. If you are dating late in the evening make sure that you walk in places where your date is feeling safe. Don't forget that she does not know you very well and being alone with you in a place that is not public can make her feel insecure. It is normal!

By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will want to be with you again.

By: Ovi Dogar

Where to Go on a First Date

2008-07-28T14:55:00.000-07:00

Where to Go on a First Date

Here's a few ideas that you can choose from.

An open-air date. There's something cool about going on a date where you're both out in the sunshine and fresh air. Most girls like being active. You don't have to play football with your date to be active. Try going to the zoo, park or beach. Play some miniature golf or go to a carnival or fair. These dates let you both have fun and give you some room to talk without feeling too intimate for either one of you.

Like drama or music? Go to concert or a theatre date. You don't have to spend a lot of money for either one of these. You can go to an open-air concert in the park, a local theatre company production, or just listen to the band at a friendly bar. Again, these will give you the chance to talk and get to know each other better.

If you like something a little more sophisticated go to an art exhibition or a museum. Like something a little unusual, hit the arcade, go to a theme park or water park; shop for antiques at flea markets. Then after any of these places, stop for a coffee or cappuccino. The point isn't where you go, or what activity you enjoy. The point is getting to know each other. There was obviously something that attracted you to each other. Take the time to enjoy being around each other and talking together. After all, the best relationships begin as friendships.

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How to Touch a Woman and Get Her Excited

2008-07-28T14:52:00.000-07:00

How to Touch a Woman and Get Her Excited

When you want to get a woman excited, touching is next in the natural progression, after conversation. Women are extremely sensual creatures. They truly enjoy being touched. But, if you go to fast or are too heavy-handed, they'll also let you know in a heartbeat that they're no longer interested in you.

There is a series of steps to take when getting a woman excited. Those steps orbit around how reassured she is about what your doing. Watch how she moves; look out for signs of her being uncomfortable. Keep your libido in check, or she'll check out.

Start slow. Touch her hand or arm. These are safe areas, but they start everything in motion. She will become accustomed to you touching her if you start here. When the conversation becomes more intimate, start stroking her hand. Go from the wrist to the fingertips. This is very sensual for a woman.

When she comes closer because she like how you are making her feel, keep holding her hands and kiss her fingers. If she smiles and is a little flushed in the face, you know that you are making her feel warm and secure.

Move from her hands, taking one finger and go up the side of her arm to her shoulders. There are a lot of erogenous nerve endings in this area of her arms. She is likely to shiver a little say you're tickling her. Don't take this as a rebuke. She's enjoying the playfulness.

When you reach her shoulders, go to the back of her neck. All the nerves of the body pass through this area and it's very sensitive. Also, particularly if she works in an office, any touching done on her shoulders and back of her neck will feel luxurious to her. If she says that this feels really good, take a moment and gently massage her neck.

After reaching the neck and shoulders, run your finger through the lower part of the back of her head, wrapping your fingers in her hair. Your are continuing to talk, tease, and play with her, and she is loving it. Then go for a kiss.

She will definitely be in the mood and will begin advances on her own at this point.

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How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

2008-07-28T14:50:00.000-07:00

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

Let's get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.

The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.

How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me and made a date in the romantic manner.

Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.

A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.

Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.

Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.

You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?

Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.

The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.

Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.

The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.
Author: Vlad Karl

Stupid Mistakes While Dating Online – For Guys Sure

2008-06-06T05:58:00.000-07:00

Stupid Mistakes While Dating Online

If you want to get some responses and even get to know closely women by online dating you have to stop doing the mistakes that are chasing all the women away. So:

1. Women browse profiles to find their match just like you do. Post a good recent picture of yourself, a nice picture that shows your sense of humor or style. Do not send women pictures of your "privates". They will ask if they want to see that.

2. Make sure your profile contains proper spelling and grammar. Women like an intelligent person. Do not ruin your chances with simple mistakes in your profile. Take some time to get it right guys and you will get a response.

3. Women usually like men with some class, so don't choose a nickname that has a sexual innuendo (unless you are on an adult dating site). You don’t want to give the impression that you’re just searching for a one night stand.

4. Don't use negative words in your profile. Women are much more likely to be attracted to a positive person.

5. Send individual emails and put some thought into contacting women on these dating sites. Women get 100 emails a day from all sorts of guys. If you copy and paste 10 exactly same emails and send them off you just go over-looked.

6. Show women that you are a caring person. Get to know the woman. Ask questions to learn about whom she is, what she does, etc. Don't talk only about yourself.

7. Do not pretend that you are willing to fly half way round the world to meet someone you have been chatting to when using online dating sites if you are not really serious. It's not fair on anyone including you. It's easy to get carried away with a lovely person seven thousand miles away, but are you really going to get out of that chair and go and meet them? If you are, you have our utmost support and respect. If you are really only looking for someone in your state or close to home then stick with that and make it clear.

8. If you are married don't lie, tell from the very beginning. Women can feel this and it gets you nowhere. If you are sincere maybe you find someone who is willing to spend some good time with you.

9. If a woman tells you that she is not interested in you do not keep sending her messages. You are losing your time and she can complain that you are harassing her.
Be patient, it takes time to find someone special when using online dating sites and dating services, like anywhere else for that matter.

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Best Place for the First Date 6 Rules

2008-06-06T05:53:00.000-07:00

Rules to Choose the Best Place for the First Date
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Make sure your first date will be a success choosing the right place. There are some rules and criteria that will help you to make the best decision:

1. For your very first meeting it is suggested that you only make it brief but fun, inexpensive and relaxing.

2. Chose the place for the first date according your date's age and lifestyle. Maybe you don't know too much about the women you are going to ask for a date, but you can make a clue about her, looking to how she is dressing and watching the type of people she is hanging around.

3. Particularly on a first date, you may wish to leave early, or so may they. An exit plan for both guys and girls is always useful.

4. Dates that will make you interact with the other person and share both your interests will not only teach you more about them, but also show how compatible you actually are. Sporting events, concerts and picnics are great places for first dates.

You can talk, and being outside, everything feels less claustrophobic. It's easy and relaxed and clothing usually isn't a problem

5. It makes a difference if you can find something that she will remember for a long time. If in your area is an event like circus, carnival, festival, don't miss it and you two will have more fun than at a coffee place that's for sure. There wouldn't be any pressure; you’ll only have to enjoy the company.

6. If you are dating late in the evening make sure that you walk in places where your date is feeling safe. Don't forget that she does not know you very well and being alone with you in a place that is not public can make her feel insecure. It is normal!

Source: http://www.allgoodarticles.com

10 Steps to a Great Relation

2008-06-06T05:50:00.000-07:00

10 Steps to a Great Relation

1) I always tell guys that they usually can sense when it is the right time, but they have to learn to trust their instincts on it.

2) Here’s a test – comment on her fragrance, and lean-in to her neck for a light sniff. Does she flinch when you get close? If so, she’s not ready yet at all.

3) If you’re still in doubt, allow the conversation to pause and just smile at her. Does she hold your gaze and smile back? If so, she is definitely ready.

4) What you want to do next is to subtly tilt your head towards hers. Then, subtly tilt it to the side (I always tilt right first…maybe because I’m right-handed). She should be mirroring you at this point.

Slowly, your faces will reach each other, and your lips will touch.

You are now kissing.

This is NOT when you open your mouth and go for the full tongue-job. PLEASE guys – NEVER do that. Kissing is an art: LESS is more.

5) Now, when your lips touch for the first time – pull away a bit afterwards, and savor it. Be sure to ENJOY the fact that you are kissing this beautiful woman.

6) Next, kiss her again, but this time hold your lips together for a bit longer, allowing for MORE of the lips to touch.

7) Bring your left hand up and gently stroke her cheek while you gently/lightly kiss her.

8) At some point, it is fine to French kiss her, but do not overdo this. All you are doing here is gently touching/caressing her tongue with yours. Do not fill her mouth with your tongue…very very tacky.

9) If things become very passionate, definitely do the following:

• Move your left hand to the back of her neck, and gently grasp with your fisted hand the hair at the nape of her neck.
• Gently pull it down, and not too far – just so it feels like there is the slightest pull from the scalp.
• This feels incredibly good, while also bringing your faces even closer together.

10) A nice touch is to subtly savor her lower lip by either nibbling it, or caressing it with your tongue. If you ever find that you’re doing that, guess what…she LIKES you.

If this is a first kiss, end it after a minute. Don’t let it turn into a long, drawn out make-out…particularly if it’s in public. That’s classless.

Your goal is to leave her wanting MORE. Be sure to be the one to end it by pulling away first, OK?

Get Back Your Ex Now - What To Do And What Not To Do?

2008-06-06T05:45:00.000-07:00

Get Back Your Ex Now - What To Do And What Not To Do?

In this ever changing modern world we all people missing the main ingredient of life. Yes, we don't have peace of mind due to unhealthy relationship between the people who live together.

One of the hardest things to deal with is a breakup. It can be very traumatic to find out the one you love doesn't want to be with you anymore. Perhaps you made some mistakes in the relationship that you feel you can work through and you feel you deserve a second chance. How do you get your ex back now? With a few tips, you will be well on your way to being with the one you love, so get your ex back now and stop feeling all alone.

One of the first things you need to do for yourself after the breakup is to change your whole outlook. If you think about it, people change their minds on an average of about 30 times a day. It only makes sense for you to take that and use it to your advantage. If you don't learn how to turn your life around then you may further into depression. So you need to take that pain and turn it into something good like motivation.

One mistake that people make is getting into the self-pity party. People like to think that "this happened to them". You do not need to make your ex out to be the bad guy nor do you need to beat yourself up, taking all of the blame where things went wrong. You need to take responsibility for the things that you did and learn from that to help you turn things around. Take the things that you've learned and chalk it up to experience on what not to do in a relationship.

A good thing to do, would be to make a list of the things that you now know you need to work on or change. Once you have that list compiled then it's time to get busy. You can be sure that if you try to go back to acting like you're the same person you were when you broke up, then he or she will definitely turn you away. After you have worked on these issues then it's time to work on getting your ex back in you need to be sure to keep your first meeting light. You might try contacting him or her via e-mail or phone call just to say hi and see how they're doing. You don't want to frighten your ex so be sure to take things slow, and don't be too aggressive.

If you find that you're pushing the situation to fast you can risk the chance of pushing your ex away for good. Your object is to show that person that you've changed without scaring them away. Let them see what they've been missing and let them see what person you have become since the breakup. If you work it right, you'll find that your ex will find you attractive in a whole new light.

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10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

2008-06-05T17:29:00.000-07:00

10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

If your spouse is cheating on you, you deserve the truth! Here are ten signs that something illicit is happening behind your back.

Your spouse comes home with little tokens of affection, or presents they seem to care very much about. If they don’t have a good reason for why that present was given to them, you need to know who thought enough of them to give it – and why they care so much about it in particular.

Your partner takes trips out of town without you. Maybe you were invited on your spouse’s business trips in the past, but now they want to go alone. What is their reasoning for such an abrupt change?

They get flustered when you stop by the office unexpectedly. They never know when you might cross paths with their lover, so they want to keep you as far away from the workplace as possible.

Your spouse doesn’t answer their cell phone during times when you know they should be available.

Your lovemaking has gone downhill, and you don’t have a good reason why. Are they getting it somewhere else?

The same goes for time spent with you. Instead of cuddling at night, your partner now stays up very late on the internet, or gets up long before you do and makes sure to get out the door before you’ve had your morning coffee.
They may beg off on having extra work, but if that’s true, the work should be caught up soon. When it’s not, something is up.

That’s when you start to ask why your spouse is working so late. Is that much overtime really necessary? And if they claim it is, make sure it shows up on their paycheck.

Where are they going when they have fun? Perhaps they are out with friends and assured you they would have their cell phone, but you can’t get them for hours. When they do call you back, they are irritated that you called them. What were they really doing?

You smell a new scent on their clothes. When you ask how someone else’s cologne or perfume got there, they don’t seem to have any idea how it happened – or they claim you’re paranoid.

You drop a name and your spouse flinches. If you suspect a particular person is your spouse’s new flame, simply ask, “Who is_______?” Watch what happens as your spouse flounders for words. If they are wary, angry, worried or scared, you have your answer.

Do any of these tips fit your spouse? If so, it’s time to look into more signs, and time to figure out how to catch them. Don’t be a victim of cheating for one more day!

Author: Christina Caci

Online Dating Tips For Men* Be Mr. Popular*

2008-06-03T11:35:00.000-07:00

Be Mr Popular
This material is about online dating for people seriously interested in a long term relationship, not just looking for cyber sex or cheap thrills. If that's what you're interested in you're reading the wrong article.

TIPS

1. Focus on the things you really want in a woman

Here's some interesting stuff gleaned from a Peoples Magazine poll (admittedly a few years back).

What men saw as the most important single criteria in the woman they are seeking:
1. Sincerity (14%)
2. Sense of humor (11%)
3. A good body (9%)
4. Intelligence (8%)
5. Nice eyes (8%)
6. Ambition (6%)
7. A nice butt (5%)
8. A nice smile (4%)
9. Over 100 other features each of which ranked lower than 1%.

Women were slightly less shallow, but not much. Here is their list:
1. Sense of humor (25%)
2. Sincerity (13%)
3. Nice eyes (9%)
4. Nice smile (8%)
5. Good body (7%)
6. Intelligence (5%)
7. Height (4%)
8. Ambition (4%)
9. A nice butt (1%).

What does this tell you? Mostly it tells you that you aren't the only shallow guy out there who thinks that a woman's body is more important than her brains and her butt is more important than her smile. So relax, stop feeling guilty about what you really want in a woman, and just keep telling everyone it is the twinkle in her eye that you adore when it's really the size (or shape) of her breasts.

The point of web dating, besides trying to find someone to become your lifemate, is to have fun, to meet people easily, to experiment in a safety zone, and to find the women that really interest you while weeding out the rest before you go through the expense and pain of actually dating them in the real world.

If large breasts are your primary interest in any woman you would ever wish to marry, then look through the thousands of available profiles for the girls with large breasts. Just don't tell her that's how you're narrowing the field. Of course it was the intelligence in her eyes that drew you to her.

The point is you don't have to feel guilty or bad about your inner thoughts. Don't hurt people in the process, don't cause pain, but feel free to pursue what you really want, not what is deemed politically or socially correct.

2. Play the field

You aren't cheating on her by also chatting with other Women on the same website, at least not until you've come to believe she is the one for you and you've made a serious commitment to her.

Meanwhile, you're internet dating for crying out loud, you've never met her yet, touched her, even had dinner with her. This is the time to enjoy the chance to meet as many ladies as possible to ensure you find the one who is most compatible with you. Just be fair about it and let her enjoy the same opportunity. If, after lots of interplay with lots of people, she narrows it down to you, and you have narrowed it down to her, then you have a real chance at success.

3. Dress yourself up a bit

This is your chance to put your best foot forward. Have some great (natural looking) photos taken of yourself. Put on your best clothes. Just like in real life, first impressions are lasting impressions. If she knows you can dress up and look good when the need arises, she's far less likely to hold it against you that sometimes (maybe most of the time) you look like the cat just dragged you in.

Here are a few "photo" tips:

(a) Your primary photo (the one that shows on the search pages and is first on your profile) is the first thing she will see of you, that is the one to really impress her with. So, that one should clearly show your face, smiling or cheerful, neat and trim, wearing a decent shirt. If you really wish to impress her, on the primary photo forget the following:

* the photo of you wearing no shirt and showing your magnificent torso (A women searching for her lifemate may be happy you have a good body, but her primary concern is that you are a good man, and this photo as your primary photo makes it appear you are only after sex).

* the photo of your private parts is not going to be published on a quality online dating site, but it is going to get huge laughs from the staff before they reject it.

* the one with you on your Harley is okay as a third or fourth photo, but first show her you can dress in a manner that she'll not be ashamed to be seen with you, or take you home to meet the family.

* neat, clean, tidy but casual is a winner everytime.

4. Be careful about misunderstandings

You are going to have misunderstandings sometimes, especially if she is from a different culture than you, a Chinese woman for example. You need to be patient and thoughtful about things she writes. So often something in the written word has a totally different meaning than if it is spoken face to face.

"You are fat" in writing means you are fat, and it is kind of insulting, right? But if a woman says "you are fat" to your face with a great big adoring smile, then it may mean "you are fantastic" (one of the slang meanings of "fat"), or it at least means you are a tiny bit overweight but she absolutely adores you and finds it hugely attractive.

But add in that she is Chinese, and it can also mean you are overweight but that means you are healthy and happy and you will enjoy her cooking. Traditionally the Chinese feel that if their husband is fat they are taking good care of him, so you being a litle overweight can be a good thing.

So look for the best meaning in everything, and if you can't find one, then say flat out "you just insulted me, did you mean to do that?" and give her a chance to explain and straighten it out. Don't sit there with hurt feelings.

5. Take a deep breath

You are dating on you computer. Chances are that you don't know squat even about your own computer. I co-own a major website and I still never have a day go by that my own computer doesn't do something unexpected and baffling, such as suddenly not showing pictures. And at least once a day I want to take my computer and throw it off my balcony (the 9th floor).

If she is an Asian woman, for example, chances are very good that she knows even less than you about computers. In fact if she knows too much about computers she'd better have a good reason, otherwise you should be worried that she is a scammer.

The point is that you will have occasions when things go wrong on your computer or hers, and it takes time to get it corrected, often a day or two for your computer geek friend, or hers, to come and figure it out. In addition, sometimes the website you are members on has a glitch, or is under construction for a few hours, or their server is down, or your provider is down, etc. When this stuff happens, take a deep breath and be patient.

If she is right for you and is truly interested in you, then she is sitting on the other side of the problem also anxiously waiting to chat with you again. Relax and go have a beer or coffee with the boys, who have been wondering where you disappeared to for the last 8 days.

6. Don't be afraid to show your humor, but have a thick skin

The point of a relationship is to enjoy it, so if you are the kind of guy who loves to joke around, then joke around. But remember that a joke spoken is often hilarious but a joke written is often flat as the proverbial pancake. And also remember that what is funny to in your culture may not be funny in hers. An Asian girl may not get the subtext. So don't be offended if she "just doesn't get it".

Again by way of example, Chinese and Asian women generally love to joke and laugh and have fun, but it may take a while before either of you "get" the other one's joke. Never be insulted if she fails to laugh.

7. Do unto others

Online dating is no different than any other form of human interaction in that common decency is a fundamental requirement. The "Golden Rule" is always applicable. Treat her the way you wish to be treated by her. If you feel good about yourself and the way you are treating the Chinese or Asian women you are "web dating" you will enjoy the experience.

On the rare occasion when she is not good to you, you should simply realize you were lucky her true colors came out, dump her (politely, of course) and move on to the ones who are good to you. No need to feel hurt or unhappy about it, if this was regular dating you might have spent a fortune on her before you found out she is not a good person.

8. Be open and honest

In spite of what was said in #1 above, and further to what was said in #2 above, always be open and honest about the really important things. You are looking for your lifemate. How will you know if you have found her if you aren't honest with her.

Online dating is about meeting lots of women, Asian or Chinese if that is your preference, getting to know them, and slowly narrowing them down to the one you want to be with forever. If you are not open and honest you simply will never achieve your goal because you always will end up with someone who thinks you are someone you are not, and that is a relationship that can never last for long.

About the Author:

John Abbot, is co-owner of www.ChinaLoveMatch.net, a Quality Online Dating site. Married to a lovely Chinese Lady, and living in China, John knows and respects Chinese Women, Chinese People and Chinese Culture. For more good stuff By John on Online Dating, Chinese Women, International Relationships and Things Chinese go to http://www.ChinaLoveMatch.net and click on CLM eMagazine.

Girls Love this Sex Positions

2008-05-22T09:00:00.000-07:00

Girls Love this Sex Positions

According to some professionals of the "Art Of Sex" there are 3 Positios that can make your partner have a real orgasm,or at lest have very pleasure.

Any man that love his wife wants to keep her pleasured all the time,and sometimes its not so easy has we think.

Along the years womans have been emancipating in all areas and sex its one of them.

In nowadays Girls want to be caressed want to have preliminaries,Girls dont want just to be a slave for you.

So why not start to give her some real pleasure with this 3 easy sex positions.??

Variant Missionary Position: We all know that this means the guy goes on top of her in pancake fashion. The added part is this: Lift her right leg straight up or bend it at the knee while pressing down deep. This simple addition will bring her much more pleasure and as it usually happens, the more she is turned on - the greater your experience will be. If you want to crank it up a notch, try elevating both legs. Remember, the further back the leg(s) go, the deeper the penetration.

The Higher Doggy : Sure, going in from behind is also a common sexual position but most stop with the basic version. Again, crank it up with increased orgasmic delight for the both of you. Usually, the doggy style lends itself to the penis running straight in but that is not the greatest area of pleasure for her. If you want to really drive her wild, make sure your penis rubs against her vaginal roof. This is easily and best accomplished by elevating her up on her knees and bring it from behind with thrusts upward. Experiment with this and once you find the right placement, the experience will get better an better for both.

Double Dip Sideway : If she is wanting you to just give it to her then here it is. This is straight up hot! Pull her close to your side. While you are both naked laying side to side, kiss on her neck and rub her nipples until she is ready for it. Then give it to her from the side, stroking strongly while stimulating her clitoris with your index finger. I guarantee a wild time for her and promise you that this will be a sexual position that you will visit again and again.
Start to Practice Guys

How to Drive your girl Crazy Kissing??

2008-05-22T08:27:00.000-07:00

How to Drive your Girl Crazy Kissing??

A kiss always been on measure of desire and passion and can be a decise factor in a relationship.
Learn this tips step by step.

1 Choose a nice and comfortable place to be alone..Keep strangers eyes away.

2the touch its very important look deep in her eyes touch her hands and her face gently.

3stat to hug her tenderness and start to kiss her ear and wisp some lovely words.

4Close your eyes and star your kiss slowly and according to her moment desire increase the intensity

5 Try not to move your tongue very fast,because majority of womans prefer a slowly and loving kiss to a fast and furious one.

6During the kiss make some massage in her head.

7Never forget the basic hygiene of a mouth.Keep your mouth always fresh and clean.

Thats all mates.
Ps :Not all womans are equal so with time you going to learn her tastes,and how she gets hot with a kiss.

Dating Tape Funny Guy "The Milk Man"

2008-05-16T08:23:00.000-07:00

4 Proven Ways to Date Hot Women

2008-05-12T14:00:00.000-07:00

4 Proven Ways to Date Hot Girl

You watch a sexy girl across the Disco surrounded other guys. In your mind you asking what it would be like to be with her or with date her. Probably you can secretly imagine yourself what it would be like to have sex with her.How would it be take her to dinner and end at your house or in backseat of your car.

All of us already think in something like this isn't true?

Unfortunately our dreams vanish like smoke, if we don't have 4 things.

1 Exude confidence

Without a doubt, confidence is a great must to attract and date a sexy girl. In all kind of situations, you MUST to breath confidence around her. Even if you don't feel confidence in some moments, in certain places, or close to some of her friends you must be able to at least fake a truly confidence.

Train at home or with some friend faking confidence.

2 Improve Yourself(be better than the others)

You are working in being confidence, so you have to improve yourself to the point to where you stand out from other guys.

If you notice some guys (jerks or ugly guys or other kind) who date sexy girls apart from other guys is the fact that they have their own unique style. The way they dress ,something that make a difference between they and the others.

To improve yourself, you have to do a bit of self-exploration and find out what makes you unique. Create an image for you,something you like but unique.
Example:Using a black ring in little finger can be something in your image.
Girls notice that things and better they like:P

3 Be a Man

When you date a sexy girl, almost all guys act like them self are girl. Now in order to be with her, you have to be the exact opposite of her.

In other words, you have to masculine!

Now when I say be a Man, I don't mean you have to be some 6 and 1/2 foot tall monstrosity. Instead you should you should display all the qualities that women love in guys.(romantic, sensual, friend,and all that stuffs)

This means you should be confident, aggressive(not to much), candid, funny(with real fun not that jokes only you will laugh) and a bit cocky. The more you can do display the classic signs of "being a guy", the more she'll be into you.

4- You Must Have a Large group of friends

Hot girls like to be with guys they consider to be "movers and shakers". These are the guys who seem to know everybody in the room and get a lot of attention.

To increase this personality, you have to be willing to get out there and get all the friends you can. In other words, you have to work on attracting both guys and girls to your social circle.

By having a lot of friends you'll improve your social value to women and will create a competitive environment among them.

Now remember all of these four tips are within your reach. While this might take a bit of hard work, the pay off is well worth it.

If you can step and work on these skills, you'll become the guy with the hot woman on his arm.

An this tips will always work when in good use of them.
Good Luck

Top Free Dating Sites - The Top Five

2008-05-11T13:24:00.000-07:00

Top Free Dating Sites - The Top Five

OkCupid

OkCupid.com offers the best of free online dating. Have a look around. Like what you see? Good. Look at other sites. Suspiciously free for the first few rounds, enough to get you interested in other singles and profiles, so you're salivating for that date, then you have to cough up the goods to send a message or make a real profile. OkCupid is actually free, and always free. Never pay. Really. We don't even have a billing department. Get online dating services for nothing, for real, for once.

CasualKiss

CasualKiss is, well, uhh... we don't really know. We think it might be a dating site.

We throw together some dating, blogging, webcams and other crap.. sit back.. and watch what happens. Enjoy.

Plentyoffish

Plentyoffish is now the largest online dating site in the world, and it's still run out of my apartment. We are 100% Free and have the highest quality members of any dating site.

Connecting Singles

A 100% free Online Dating service for singles
Many online dating services claim to be free, and then surprise you with charges for features such as contacting other members, extensive searching, viewing profiles or photos, etc. Connecting Singles is a totally free-to-use online dating service (everything free) for singles. All features on Connecting Singles are without charges, fees, credits, coupons or surprises.

Bookofmatches

Bookofmatches is a Free Online Dating Site, Personals Site and Friendship Community for adults. Bookofmatches (aka boM) combines the ideas of open chatting & self expression to provide a very real-time and safe environment. Best of all, our online dating service/community is 100% free to use for you and your friends. Unlike other sites that claim to be free, we guarantee that you will never need to pull out your credit card. By signing up, you will be a part of one of todays best ways to find that significant other and/or meet people online.

This are the Top Free Dating websites to find you soul mate, your friends,your Passions.
Check what its the best one for you and start to make friends,or who knows your future boyfriend or girlfriend.
I am trying to bring you all the best tips about Dating.
If you think you are getting more success with your dates leave some feedback in comments.
If you have any questions don't hesitate to ask.
We have a girl and a men ready to answer all your needs.
Need a suggestion, a special tip,a gift to give and don't know whats its the best choice???
Just ask.
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The 5 Things Men Won't Talk About When Dating

2008-05-10T10:06:00.000-07:00

The 5 Things Men Won't Talk About When Dating

What is your partner really thinking when he goes quiet? What’s running through your date’s mind during the silences?

Having interviewed dozens of men on topics they rarely discuss, Maggie Hamilton, author of What Men Don’t Talk About, has discovered that men, like women, long to be heard, accepted, loved and understood by their partner.

“In our desire to grasp the differences between the sexes, we as a society have come to focus on what separates us, rather than what joins us together. The way ahead lies in realising that there are more qualities that bind us than separate us,” writes Hamilton.

Here are 5 things that, according to Hamilton, prey on men’s minds:

1. Just as women need tenderness from men, so men need tenderness from their partner. They find it difficult to ask for tenderness, and are often afraid that the softness from women will come with strings attached. According to Rowan, 41: “Women need to love themselves first, so they can give generously around them, because neediness is never a good basis for a relationship.”

2. Contrary to popular opinion, ‘sex’ is not the reason men seek long-term relationships with a partner. Instead, the men Hamilton spoke to talked about being ‘supported and held’, having ‘somebody to share things with’, ‘encouragement’, ‘truth, honesty and a friend’, ‘a soul mate’.

3. When it comes to love, women often assume men hold the balance of power. But in relationships, men are often intimidated by women because men perceive their partners as holding the sexual power.

4. Many men feel the strain of having to appear strong all the time. Our society assumes men can handle whatever situation they are in, but there are times they need the help and protection of their partner. According to Hamilton, men find it extremely difficult to ask for help.

5. Men feel pressure to perform sexually with their partner. However, rather than seeing this as stressful and undesirable, many men see this pressure as a good thing. Matthew, 27, says: “Yes, men are under greater pressure. But so they should be! Men of my generation are better educated in this area. It’s what is expected of us, and also what we expect of ourselves.”

...just don't expect to read about this in their Online Dating profile.

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Autor: johnstoa

How to Catch a Cheating Wife

2008-05-10T10:02:00.000-07:00

How to Catch a Cheating Wife

The last thing a husband wants to do is accuse his wife of having an affair when in fact she is not. Therefore, if you suspect your wife is cheating, take great care to do things the right way so you do not end up with a damaged marriage. One of the most common signs of a woman having an affair is her spending more time at work, long lunch hours, extra meetings and so on.

You see - the majority of affairs begin at work. The affair could be with an employee, boss, consultant, or client. Therefore, you first want to take note of any special attention pertaining to the workplace. For instance, if you notice your wife is spending more time taking care of herself to look nice at work, leaving earlier than usual, going out every day for lunch, staying late, taking business trips, and so on, then you may have a reason to be suspicious.

Once you begin to notice signs of change, you would begin to take note and look for proof. For instance, if you see that your wife’s behavior is different from usual, you are probably asking yourself why. If she becomes more interested in spending hours at the computer conversing with "friends" or "playing games" rather than going to bed, the behavior would be different, therefore, suspicious.

Another sign that your wife may be having an affair is that she suddenly takes up a new sport, activity, or some kind of interest. While this could a good thing and have nothing to do with cheating at all, again you want to pay attention. Along with the behavioral change would cove her taking better care of personal hygiene, having manicures and pedicures, choosing a new hair color and/or style, shopping for trendy or sexy clothes, etc.
Then, if you find that your wife prefers taking calls on her cell phone or perhaps talks in a quiet voice when the home phone rings, question it. Keep in mind that if your wife was cheating and you approach her, the chances are she will deny everything. For this reason, you must put it all together. This means looking at the computer to determine what sites she is visiting, obtaining cell phone records, and even following her, if necessary.

While the thought of following your wife sounds mean or invasive, if you believe she is having an affair, then you owe it to yourself and your family to know the truth. Sometimes, confirming an affair is hard. In this case, you might need to hire a private investigator to do the work for you. However, if you have time or interest, you can always be your own private eye. Finally, you can even purchase miniature, hidden cameras to place around the house if you believe she is having the man in, buy software that can monitor her computer activity, and a wide array of other tools to help you know if your wife is in fact cheating.

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Autor: SeanM

7 Warning Signs That She is Not Interested in You Anymore

2008-05-10T10:01:00.000-07:00

7 Warning Signs That She is Not Interested in You Anymore

To break up a relationship is a harder decision when we talk about a long term one.
In most cases when woman is no longer interested in a relationship she doesn't want to be the one to end it. But even when she is already made the decision to break it up, she will take some time to give you some signs to prepare you, before she tells you.
If you feel that something is going wrong it is time to take a closer look at your relationship. Here are seven warning signs she is no longer interested:
1. This is probably the most classic subtle signal of all: her life become too hectic. She hasn't picked up the phone for a few days and when she does, she is busy and pretending that she doesn't have time to met you. This isn't necessarily a sign that it is over, but if you are used to meet her frequently then there is something wrong.
2. Eventually, when she decided to spend some time with you she keeps looking around to find something to do or someone else to talk to. However, when a woman is interested, she puts in the effort by giving you her full attention.
3. She's secretive and no longer wants to tell you where she has been or who was on the phone.
4. Don't forget that women love to talk. If she doesn't ask you questions and shows no interest in what you have to say and when you ask her questions she limits her answers to "yes" and "no" she has a problem. Can it be the relationship with you?
5. Is she causing arguments over stupid little things? If nothing you do or say isn't right anymore and all that goes wrong is your fault you can start to worry.
6. She refuses the presents you make. Women love to get presents, so if she turns yours down, she can feel guilty because she is thinking to break up with you, especially if you know she was about to buy that thing for herself.
7. She talks about divorce or break up of other people relationship, as a positive thing. Maybe a friend of her just has braked up with her boyfriend and now she is doing much better.
In the game of romance, few things are black and white. Most of the points above are assumptions based on commonly used techniques. There is room for interpretations and misunderstandings but all this can make you wonder if everything is ok and discuss the problems you might have.

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The Law of Attraction

2008-05-10T09:58:00.000-07:00

The Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction is the universal law that can help you find your soulmate. It says that you will attract to you those people, events, and experiences that match your state of being. If you focus on having gratitude for the love, companionship, and joy you have in your life right now, you will attract more of that into your life. If you focus on what you don’t have, you will send out a message of lack and you will attract more lack into your life.

In the movie “Conversations with God” the character Neale says to God: “I just want my life back.” And God says to Neale: “You can’t have anything that you want.”

They then have an entire dialogue where God explains to Neale that by ‘wanting something (or someone)’ all you get to have is the experience, the feeling of ‘wanting'. I think there's something to be learned from that.

As part of the preparation to manifest your soul mate I suggest that you begin the process of “living as if.” This means that your daily actions become congruent with your beliefs. For instance, I once heard a story about the great actress Della Reese. During the time she was waiting for her soul mate to arrive, she would set a place at the table for him each time she had a meal. Eventually, he arrived. Della sent a clear message to the Universe and the Universe delivered.

Many years ago, there was a woman by the name of Gayle that was advised by her astrologer to put her intentions for a soul mate into the world by coloring a mandala. She took a black & white mandala and a rainbow of multi-colored pencils and began declaring her intentions while she colored in a space on the mandala. She asked for things like: finding the perfect spiritual friend and lover to go through life with; a man who is kind to animals; someone who would appreciate her sense of humor; a man who would be accepting and open to her spiritual quest. For each intention she used a different color until the entire mandala became a multi-hued Technicolor testimony to the qualities she desired in her future partner. Within weeks of doing this she met her soul mate and they have now been married for more than 20 years!

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Tips for Women by a Woman

2008-05-10T09:56:00.000-07:00

Tips for Women by a Woman

Over the years, I have observed a common trend with women, not all women but a sizeable portion of the female population, they seem to be very insecure physically and sexually. In my opinion, these insecurities lead women to do some detrimental things in and to their relationships. Women, you need to empower yourselves. Embrace your body (it is the only one you own), get informed about what you like and don’t like sexually and learn that sex is meant to be enjoyed. It is very important to remember that communication is the key to any great relationship and a sexual relationship is no different. Everyone has insecurities but they don’t have to interfere in a healthy relationship. Talk to your partner about the insecurities you have, work on them and get ride of them, or at least get them at a manageable level.

Here are a few tips to help you become the woman you and your man would like you to be, a confident woman who doesn’t focus on your (or his) previous relationships and a woman who communicates not criticizes:

1. Know you are a goddess! Show that confidence. It is very intoxicating to a man if you show him how confident you are about yourself and your sexual techniques. Men love it when women aren’t insecure about themselves or their relationships. If you don’t quite believe you are a goddess yet, try to wear things that make you feel sexy and confident, go get a makeover at the salon, get your nails done and keep telling yourself you are a sexy goddess until it becomes a reality for you. Just remember to keep doing things that make you feel good about yourself. Get a hobby or an activity that is all your own. That will help build confidence as well. It also shows your man that you have your own interests outside the relationship.

2. Ladies stop asking your men about previous girlfriends and the sexual acts they performed on your man. You don’t need to know that and I’m sure he doesn’t really want to talk to you about it. It only leads to feelings of jealousy and that has no place in a healthy relationship. The same goes for you, stop telling him about your ex-boyfriends and what things they may have done for you sexually or how many times a day you did it, etc…etc. Men don’t want to feel like they are being compared just like you don’t want to drive yourself crazy thinking about everything his ex did with him and trying to live up to some standard you have created in your mind. You were not there you couldn’t possibly know what they were like together and besides there are reasons these people are ex-boyfriends/ex-girlfriends let it go and don’t bring the toxic feelings about your ex’s into your current relationship. Your man is with you, not them, start fresh and leave those ex’s in the past were they belong.

3. Never criticize your man’s efforts in the bedroom. Criticizing is a way of telling him he is not doing things the way you want them done. This can be very hurtful and one of the biggest turn-offs to the person who is being criticized and also often leads to resentment. It maybe true that you are not getting the results you want in the bedroom but criticizing him about it isn’t the way to fix it. Instead be direct and communicate with your man. It is not his fault he doesn’t know what you like if you haven’t told him already in no uncertain terms. Tell him what you want and how you want it. He is then not left guessing about where he stands in his abilities and he doesn’t feel stupid because you belittled him about his technique.

Remember don’t be so hard on yourself, enjoy your body, love your life, don’t try to be someone you are not and above all else try to be happy about anything and everything as much as possible.

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Making a Profile on Free Dating Sites

2008-05-10T09:39:00.000-07:00

Making a Profile on Free Dating Sites

Written by Ed Wildman; 09/05/2008 - 00:12

Almost everyone wants some romance, but sometimes it's hard to find a special someone. Fortunately, free dating sites have made that love connection easier.

Free dating sites offer a host of features that connect potential lovers. One of the first and most important steps on free dating sites is the creation of your personal profile. This is your opportunity to let your personality shine.

In creating a profile on a free dating site, you are required to give some basic information. First, you'll give them your name and gender. Then let the service know whether you're looking for a man, a woman, or both. This starts to narrow the pool of prospects down already.

Free dating sites ask you to give some information on where you live, usually just a ZIP code. This is great if you want to meet someone who lives nearby. Maybe you passed your potential mate in the video store without even knowing!

A free dating site might ask you to give some physical information. Maybe you'll be asked to list your height, weight and eye color. What about that full sleeve of Michelangelo's Pieta that you just got tattooed on your left arm the summer before last? Tell others all about it in your profile. A lot of people are into skin art, and this could come into play with your online connections.

You might notice that profile questions become more and more detailed at this point. If you aren't looking to meet someone who's a duplicate of yourself, feel free to leave some answers blank. Or if you're kind of embarrassed to profess your love for the band Boston and the guitar stylings of Tom Scholz, leave it out of your profile. On the other hand, maybe you're looking for someone who shares that particular musical passion. However much detail you choose to disclose is entirely up to you.

Pick a great photo of yourself. Don't be tempted to touch it up in Photoshop. It shouldn't be too glamorous, unless of course you're a model. Even then, make it a photo that represents the best of your everyday look. And make sure that it's relatively recent. Nobody wants to see your prom picture when you're 31 years old, unless they've really gotten to know you.

So how do you make your profile really stand out on a free dating site? When you are asked to write an autobiography, give it some snap. Think of a clever headline that gives an idea of your personality. Joke a bit if you're a pretty funny person who doesn't take things too seriously. Don't be contrived. Be specific in your questionnaire, and don't leave too many blank answers. Give some specific examples of your humor. Quote "The Big Lebowski" if it's your favorite film. Talk about softball if you love playing.

Make sure that you let others know what you want out of a free dating site. Whether you're looking for a great Friday night or a lifetime of great Friday nights, others will be more apt to check out your profile if they know exactly what you want. Remember that the most important thing is to find someone that you connect with, not someone that your friends think that you should connect with.

And please, spell and grammar check your profile. You want to look like the brilliant person that you are. Unless, of course, you're looking for someone who can't spell either!

About the Author:

Ed Wildman is the creator, designer, administrator, programmer, author, trouble shooter and all-round dogsbody of the free dating site http://www.freedating247.com

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5 Things That Every Woman Wants From A Man

2008-05-09T11:35:00.000-07:00

5 Things That Every Woman Wants From A Man

Communication between the sexes seems like a myth sometimes. It can seem impossible to find out how to make your partner happy if you don't know what she wants. Of course, every woman is an individual with unique needs, but here are five (in no particular order) that they all want:

1. Romance-

The problem here is that a lot of guys tend to associate romance with trashy novels or cutesy, once-a-year valentines. To be effective, it should be somewhat of a lifestyle. True romance is the little things a couple does for each other all the time, and it doesn't have to be flowers and candy. It can be as simple as warming up her car on a cold day, or making the morning coffee so she can wake up to a fresh pot. It's the actions you take to demonstrate your love for her, not to be confused with sex.

2. Affection-

Affection is simply the physical manifestation of romance. It's cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, or a hug, or a kiss that is not designed to lead straight to the bedroom. Again, not to be confused with sex.

3. Security-

Different women satisfy their need for security in different ways, but they all want it. It's hardwired into their brains. The homemaker types are nesters. They find security in their homes and family. The independent, self-sufficient woman may find it in a career. As a man, you role in her quest is to be supportive and work together with her to make it happen. Be dependable.

4. Laughter-

Every woman likes a man who can make her laugh. However, this is not the stand-up routine you entertain your buddies with at the bar. It's a little bit about recreating that giddy, happy time when you were still trying to impress her with your wit, and even more about being about to laugh each other through the trials of life.

5. Sex-

Now, the one you've been waiting for. Contrary to what you might think, women want sex just as much as guys do. When she doesn't want to sleep with you, it's not a power play, it's because your behavior at that point has made you unattractive to her. Sleepily and unceremoniously rolling on top of her in the middle of the night is probably not going to turn her on. The bottom line is if you respect her, and take care of these first four things, she'll give you all of number five you can handle.

The 4 Types of Women You Should Never Date

2008-05-09T11:28:00.000-07:00

The 4 Types of Women You Should Never Date

Not all girls are created equal. Some are smarter than others, some are prettier, and some are just plain crazy.

So how do you cope when you find you've hooked up with an unbalanced woman?

If your unhinged chick is otherwise perfect, you may well want to give the relationship a go - but, before you commit to anything, you need to figure out what her issues are and how you can deal with them.

I've addressed the most common problems below:

The Clingy Chick

She's the girl who sends you text messages on her way home from your first date. It seems sweet and flattering at the time, but before you know it you're being inundated by texts, calls and emails all demanding to know where you are and why you're avoiding responding to her.

You're going to have to tell her straight that you need your space. Cushion the blow by assuring her that you do really like her and that you love hearing from her every day or two, but remind her that you're a very busy man and won't always be available to chat. Never promise her a message if there's a chance you'll forget to send it.

The Jealous Girl

Her ex was a bad boy, so now she assumes that you are, too. In social situations, she doesn't leave your side. She sulks when she finds out your workmates are female. She has even started checking your cell phone for incriminating messages and unfamiliar feminine names.

Point out that while her preventative measures do make it impossible for you to cheat, they also make it impossible for you to prove that you can be trusted. Tell her that you can't and won't avoid talking to other women, but that she's the only one you would ever flirt with. And don't think that lying about who you (innocently) talk to or work with will make for an easier life - all your hard work will be undone the moment she uncovers the truth.

Your Future Wife

She knew the instant she met you that you were destined to be together; you need a little bit longer before you start hearing those weddings bells!

Deal with this as quickly as possible. Tell her you're crazy about her and that you really hope you've got a future together, then explain that you want to let the relationship evolve at its own pace. Agree a time when you will talk this over again - say, six months from now, or a year.

In this situation, lots of men start stressing their point. Every time their girl sees a baby or hears her friends are engaged, they cry, 'Thank heavens that's not us!' Don't do this - you'll only upset her. Accept that she knows how you feel about things and stop rubbing salt in her wounds!

The Real Crazies

When talking to unbalanced women, the trick is never to insult them or to imply that they have a problem. Explain what you need done right, rather than what she is doing wrong. Don't play her games. If she has mood swings, ignore them. If she cross-examines you, keep your temper. Don't give her reasons to get more upset.

If you've tried the tricks above and she's still bombarding you with phone calls and proposals, you have to accept that you're never going to change her. And if your date is making you miserable, ask yourself: do you want to stick around?

Online Dating-2 Keys To Finding Love Online by Vivian Johnson

2008-05-09T05:43:00.000-07:00

Online Dating-2 Keys To Finding Love Online by Vivian Johnson

As we are wandering around in the vast sea of cyber singles, we are looking for the "magic"... The "key"...the "secret" to finding love online.

Well, I don't have the magic to finding love online, but I have discovered a couple keys...

The first key to finding love online, is know "what" love means to us. We all have a different definition of "love". I call it our own person interpretation of love.

Your "love" may be the kind of person that has to call you several times throughout the day and all through the evening. They feel they are showing their love by always being in your presence.

But to others, we do not like the "clinging vine" type. We don't want to be called constantly...emailed endlessly...to some of us, that is "over kill" attention.

You must be clear as to what love means to you. You can not go further until you can answer that question.

The second key to finding love online, is preparing yourself for love. Can you honestly say you are ready for a new love? Have you resolved all past issues with your previous love? If not, you aren't ready to find a new love.

Many Singles get involved with online dating before resolving the previous relationship. That isn't fair...

If you are trying to start a new relationship without breaking 100% from your last relationship, you are now in a "threesome". Not only are you in a threesome so is your old love and your new love!

You cannot get involved with online dating until you are 100% free from any relationship. If you feel this isn't necessary, then at least tell the new love exactly what your current relationship status is. If you think it is okay, then put it all on the table. Give the new love an opportunity to make a choice. I think we both know what that choice will be...

About the Author

Vivian has been involved with online dating since it's inception! This is her main dating forum, since there is no other place in the world where you can have access to millions of eligible singles!

Do you know how to Find, Catch & Keep the love of your life in 7 days? If not, please get your copy of:

For A Limited Time Only - Free Internet Dating Course ($27.00 Value) http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html

Increase Your Luck At Finding The One For You Online by Vivian Johnson

2008-05-09T05:41:00.000-07:00

Increase Your Luck At Finding The One For You Online by Vivian Johnson

When you get involved with online dating you want to get the best results possible. You don't want to keep going in circles and wasting your time!

To increase your luck at finding the one for you online you must be willing to do the following:

1. Make a list. List everything about "him/her" you must have. Be explicit! If she has to be 5' 5" or less? Put that down! If you do not want to get involved with someone with more than 2 children under the age of 10? Write that down too!

You have a right to want certain things. That does not mean you are selfish. You are selective. You know what will and what will not work for you!

2. When browsing the online dating sites, you have to make notes! You think you will remember the site name and the User Names of the Singles that catch you attention. But there are so many sites and singles...Just write them down!

You will also increase your luck at finding the one for you online if you clearly state in your profile what you want!

Once it is clearly stated what you are looking for, anyone that does not fit that description will not be surprised if you do not take the time to acknowledge their email!

3. You may choose to respond only to the Singles that "fit" your list of "must haves". You may choose to be extremely polite and respond to every email you receive. That is completely up to you.

The only way you will increase your luck at finding the one for you online is by being explicitly clear regarding what you do and do not want! Make sure you include the same information in your profile.

About the Author

Vivian has been involved with online dating since it's inception! This is her main dating forum, since there is no other place in the world where you can have access to millions of eligible singles!

Do you know how to Find, Catch & Keep the love of your life in 7 days? If not, please get your copy of:

For A Limited Time Only - Free Internet Dating Course ($27.00 Value) http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html

The Secret to get your EX to Return Your Calls by Richard Cross

2008-05-09T05:39:00.000-07:00

The Secret to get your EX to Return Your Calls by Richard Cross

At the beep please leave your message.... beeeeeeeeeeeeeeepppppppp!"

Words you hate to hear from that robotic women's voice when you are trying to reach your EX!

Frusturated? Angry? Sad? Confused? All of these emotions get wrapped up when you are trying to get your EX to call you back.

Would you like to know the hidden ways to actually leave a message for your EX that he or she will return?

IT IS possible and IS easier than you think. It requires no games and no drama.

This theory works and is completely laid out for you in a detailed strategy.

Click Here to learn the strategy

Before I get into what the message is let me tell you two things that never work.

1) The Plead - "Mark, please, please, please call me back. This is the 4th time I've called I really need to talk to you."

2) The Emergency - "Vanessa, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Obviously you can see what is wrong with these approaches.

So, instead of focusing on what not to do the author focuses on how you can use two of the most powerful forces in the human mind to work for you.

Those two forces are Curiosity & Self-Interest.

And here is the secret... when you combine these two forces together you get the perfect system that really does work magic to get your EX to call you back.

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi Mark. It's Vanessa. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I really want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Mark will NOT be able to resist! He'll be thinking: "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" And he feels good because it is a positive message.

The author of this program has set up a whole strategy that plans out step by step what needs to be done before you call.

For lack of a better term, you need to know the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible. It cannot be something false.

But more importantly and extremely crucial for this whole plan to work, YOU MUST HAVE AN UNDERLYING STRATEGY.

The strategy the author lays out in the Magic Of Making Up System is bulletproof. But in order to be successful you must have this in place BEFORE you call your EX.

Click Here to learn what to do before you call your EX!

You cannot apply this technique without an underlying strategy. If you do you may actually cause more harm than good.

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Does that make sense?

Getting them to return your call is easy. The author shows you how to keep that conversation going and how to start down the road of becoming friends and more all over again. Remember in all things in life the first step is always the hardest. Click Here to take that first step and learn the WHOLE PLAN.

About the Author

I am a happily married man of 10 years who a year ago was headed toward divorce. Using strategies similar to these I saved my marriage.

If you follow the links above you can see two videos. One is of the real author himself and he details the 1st step to stopping a break up.

In the next video are actual testimonials from people who have used the system and succeded. Check it all out by clicking any of the above links.

25 Quick Romantic Tips to Use Now by L.A. Hunter

2008-05-09T05:37:00.000-07:00

25 Quick Romantic Tips to Use Now by L.A. Hunter

1. Plant a note or two in a book your love is reading. Write "I love you," I want you," or "XOXOXO."

2. While your love is taking a shower, sneak in and write, "I love you!" on the steamed mirror.

3. Next time you're walking together, grab your love's hand or walk arm and arm.

4. Email greetings can be used to surprise, create fun, show affection or entice your love. Send a free greeting anytime, in fact, why not send one right now!

5. Write down your romantic fantasies and then pick a night to share them with each other.

6. Tonight, eat dinner by candlelight.

7. Hide a love note in your love's pants or coat pocket.

8. Be extra nice when your love has had a bad day.

9. Make some lemonade and spend a warm sunny day being lazy together in a hammock.

10. Rent a funny movie. Just have a good time laughing with each other.

11. Take a candlelit shower together.

12. Stick a note on the remote control, "Come turn me on!"

13. Plan a romantic getaway together; half the fun is talking about it.

14. Spray paint a heart in the grass for your love to see.

15. Mow a heart shape into the grass.

16. Use sidewalk chalk to express your love.

17. Play summer games together such as horse shoes and croquet.

18. Share an evening together making your own love coupons, then have fun redeeming them.

19. Ladies, dress in layers of lingerie starting with your skimpiest pieces and ending with your fullest pieces. Then ask him to play strip poker.

20. Plan a nature walk together. This is a great time to feel the sun, breath some fresh air and enjoy being together.

21. Give your love a 'Honey Do List' of things they want to do.

22. Whenever you or your love arrives home, give a little wave and a big smile, no matter how bad your day might have gone.

23. Give your love at least one good compliment a day.

24. Surprise your love with a kiss before they can finish a sentence.

25. Daydream about your love and what romantic things you want to do together.

About the Author

L. A. Hunter is the author of "Romeo's Playbook: A Man's Guide for Enhancing His Relationship and Sex Life." Along with being a romance consultant for other websites she is the founder of http://www.Romantic-Secrets.com, Everyone's Favorite Romance Boutique. Visit now for more FREE romantic ideas.

How To check if Boyfriend is cheating and catch him Red-handed by Rachel Smith

2008-05-09T05:28:00.001-07:00

How To check if Boyfriend is cheating and catch him Red-handed by Rachel Smith

You can always check if your boyfriend is cheating you by trusting your intuition. You can just get a gut feeling that you are being cheated and then of course you have to look out for the signs. The obvious signs are generally unavailability and inconsistency. If he is ignoring you, or if he is just not making an effort to meet up with you, it is easy to guess that there may be another person in your boyfriend's life.

As soon as his contact with you changes, it should imply that there is something wrong. He would also start talking about some new places, new friends and even not show much enthusiasm about meeting and planning the next weekend. And then if he stops sharing small events about his life, or starts talking about topics that were of no interest to him earlier, it should indicate the new person in his life as well.

Every time you have sensed that something was not right between the two of you, you may try to overlook it as a passing moment or even accost him for spending too much money for unnecessary linen, or not spending enough time with you, knowing very well that they are being done by him to serve another purpose.

Your boyfriend will deny all accusations and lie, even though you have known him not to be a liar. You may be called paranoid, jealous and unreasonable, but he still continues to tell you that he loves only you and nobody else.

But to make sure whether your boyfriend is really cheating you or not, you need to stop any speculations and catch him cheating you. You have to figure out what he is thinking. Of course you can't peep into his mind, but you can definitely read it from the actions that he performs.

The mobile phone and the internet are the commonest tools used by cheating boyfriends. They send sweet messages to their dates and contact them through SMS, phone calls or email. The majority of exchanges made by cheating boyfriends are made by using the mobile phone.

So, try and check what is happening on his mobile phone. This is the surest way of finding out whether he is cheating you. With the help of spy software like FlexiSPY, you can read all the incoming and outgoing SMS in his phone. Also you can see all the phone calls that he has made. The phone number and the name given to the number in his contact list can also be seen by you. He could be sending emails through the phone and the spyware allows you to see them too. And you can even locate him at any given time. He may claim to be sitting in office and working late, but he may be spending the time on the beach with his newly found girlfriend and having a romantic weekend.

There is absolutely no room for excuses if your partner has cheated on you. Once you have proved the fact, there is no reason to go along, but part ways and look for a better life with someone else.

About the Author

Rachel is an internet marketer , find out how you can check on your boyfriend please visit :http://www.secretsautoprofits.info/reverse-phone/how-to-use-reversephonedetective-to-trace-phone-calls

How to Make Successful Long Distance Relationship by Rachel Smith

2008-05-09T05:25:00.000-07:00

Any relationship should be special and meaningful for both the partners, whether it is long-distance or not. If there is love and trust between two individuals, it does not make a difference whether they are living together or separated from each other. But it might be overwhelming at times when partners are faced with too many challenges and setbacks and cannot handle them alone, just because they are not spending their daily lives together. Some tips could be helpful for people who are going through tough separation periods.

Long distance relationships can actually enhance maturity, bonding and growth. You learn to be honest to each other and show respect and trust for each other. Since there is no day-to-day interaction with each other, each one's thoughts are not communicated to each other for which there is no discussion and reflection. The most important thing about long-distance relationships is to listen to each other in a caring manner. You must have implicit trust in your partner, and this can only be facilitated if there is total honesty in the partnership.

Each partner should voluntarily offer information and show empathy. Each one in the relationship should feel secure and be prompted to open up to each other. This is possible if each one shows what you are feeling and are reflecting about the relationship. For this you need to communicate with each other frequently and this is the core of building and maintaining any long-distance relationship.

If you are staying together it is possible to talk or check in with your partner at least once a day. Just this one-time talk can be a stabilizing force to a relationship. But when the partners are living away from each other, this force has to be established in different ways. Just pick up the phone and talk to your partner at least once a day, even if it is for a few minutes. This enables you to share details and updates about each other's lives. Also, if you check in with each other, you can definitely look forward to something special during the day. And you can always make plans and discuss your next reunion.

Make your questions emotionally intimate and this will automatically strengthen the bond between each other, just showing how much you mean to each other. Talk openly about the relationship itself by asking questions about it, like how you are feeling about each other. Or whether any of you harbor any concerns or worries about the relationship.

You don't have to restrict yourself to phoning in this day and age. Technology is a boon to long-distance relationships. Of course cell phones offer 'free night and weekends' plans, and on the whole telephoning has become cheaper and more convenient. Making use of a different technology like the email or text message could definitely come as a surprise and add a bit of spice to your long-distance relationship. Internet free greeting cards or letters via "snail mail" could be romantic and also a keepsake memento for times when you are both lonely and missing each other.

There are often misunderstandings, misinterpretations and hard feelings between the partners living apart from each other. But it is essential to maintain a sense of humor with your partner. Understanding the partner and knowing each other well should nurture a healthy relationship. In the bargain you get to know, understand and accept your partner with the strengths and weaknesses as well as positive and negative qualities.

About the Author

Rachel writes various topics on dating relationship , if you encounter problems you can always check this : http://getbackyourex.info/

How to Seduce Woman in Proper Ways by Rachel Smith

2008-05-09T05:15:00.000-07:00

How to Seduce Woman in Proper Ways by Rachel Smith

It is not a hard job to seduce a woman, but it is definitely an art. Above all things you should be subtle and indirect, and a woman should not be able to realize that you are seducing her. The moment you push things too hard, you will stop achieving what you wanted.

Choose a good place when you are looking for a potential partner. Of course you meet women in public places like pubs, discotheques and nightclubs, and these places are a better choice than a bus stop or a railway station. Before you make the first move, or approach her, be sure for yourself that she is the right girl for you. For this you need to observe her for a period of time so that you can be sure of your choice. Otherwise it may be a cause of embarrassment for you later.

After your selection comes your first move. Flattery can definitely help and you have to charm her some way. See that you can impress her by your style and start a conversation with her, in which you talk only about her. The conversation should be interesting for her, and hence the initiation on your part should be well thought of.

Whatever your intentions are should not be revealed right in the beginning. The revelation should occur slowly and subtly and this is preferred by most women. The hints that you give her should not be direct, but they should be noticeable so that she understands your intentions.

Check out her response at every step. If she shrinks away, she is obviously not interested in you or your charms. If she is interested, but may not want to show it too openly, she might just continue having a conversation with you just to check you out. Under no conditions should you push her, because one wrong move and you will lose her completely.

If she is moving the way you wanted, then your attempt has been successful and you can then just invite her to your house and proceed further.

It is not hard to master the technique of seducing women and automatically your success rate will go up. You have to bypass the subconscious defenses and barriers that exist in the minds of women. They always feel that they should protect themselves from men who are trying to seduce them.

Most of the time the initial reaction of every woman is rejection and you have to learn the art to overcome it. Besides increasing a woman's interest in you, you should put yourself in a position whereby you gain immediate respect. Don't make mistakes like asking her for her phone number right in the beginning, but find a way to get it from her without asking for it.

Dress appropriately, and never throw yourself on her, or at least give the impression that you are not throwing yourself on her. Take care about your hair styling, the perfume that you use and the one-liners that you learn to attract her attention and impress her.

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GET YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND BACK... YA' SURE? by Mack M

2008-05-09T05:04:00.000-07:00

GET YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND BACK... YA' SURE? by Mack M

So, you're hell bent on trying to get your ex girlfriend back. Are you sure? Really sure? Because I have heard some pretty crazy stories of guys finally, after knocking themselves stupid, spending a fortune, going to all lengths and then...

One guy, after moving his girl into his apartment, woke-up in the middle of the night, with his newly returned girlfriend, straddling him while she repeatedly spit in his face yelling obscenities!

Guy two, while walking down Madison Ave, on his way home from work, got to the front of his doorman building and while chatting with some neighbors, got hit with something falling from the sky. It was his clothing. They were his Thousand dollar suits. His newly repaired relationship was upstairs throwing his whole wardrobe out the window!

Okay, one more, guy three. Now, after hearing about this guy, I know you will be thinking... "Should you really be trying to get your ex girlfriend back?" This guy., this guy, got stabbed 17 times by his "lovely, newly returned honey" because his dog wouldn't stop barking!!! 17 times she stabbed him and I think they were only back together less than a week!

So, as you can see, you should really be sure before you attempt to get your ex girlfriend back. You know what Im saying? So, if you are still here and I haven't scared you away.., and you still want to get your girl back, it can sort of be like.., a little Jedhi Mind Trick. She needs to believe that she has lost you, forever. No contact! You see, I used an exclamation point after, no contact. That is for a reason. If you are following her around, like some wounded puppy - she knows she can have you back whenever she snaps her fingers. And chances are, that makes her sick!

To get your ex girlfriend back, requires a little savy. A little thought. If getting your ex back is that important.., give it some damn thought! Once you've created enough distance (No Contact) and she knows you're not some punk to be played with.., than you have just created the opportunity for your in... And now, you have your chance.

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How to kiss a girl and drive her crazy! by Bobby Lee Bonslater

2008-05-09T05:00:00.001-07:00

How to kiss a girl and drive her crazy! by Bobby Lee Bonslater

Have you ever kissed a girl before and it just seemed completely awkward? You put your lips in one place and she puts her lips in another and before you know it your teeth crash together, and than you try a little tongue action only to choke her to death, and than all of a sudden you make this loud disgusting slimy noise that just blows the whole mood. Well than you came to the right place!

I'm going to walk you through several steps you must take to "kiss a girl and drive her crazy".

Step 1. So you've been on several dates with somebody and now your ready to take the next step. To ascertain the understanding that a kiss is about to presume amongst both parties, use the skillful technique of touch and whisper. Playfully touch or graze her arm (not her hand) and say something funny, romantic or poetic in her ear to break the ice. You could also find something funny about something or someone on the street and whisper in her ear "hey look at that funny guy over there". This will distract her from the fact that you are like a few inches away from her ear. Now once she turns her head back after giggling for a second, you can sort of get the signal. This works as an indirect approach. This will warm the plate and send a more definite signal that she wants to kiss you.

Step 2. IMITATION: This is the most important step of all steps. As you slowly touch her lips, gently imitate her movements "equal" to her intensity level. Pay careful attention to the way she moves. You don't want to come in too aggressive as this may cause her to lose trust in you and be turned off. I know, I know... some women like it rough but trust me, the one that you want, wants it nice and easy. This will make her feel very relaxed around you. Women have this preconceived notion and fantasy of how their knight in shining armor will sweep them off their feet with a kiss. Following there movement is basically following how they want it. In a way, they are subconsciously showing you how they want to be kissed. So by imitating her technique you are essentially being the person she fantasizes about.

Step 3. RELAX: Don't tighten up your mouth, jaws and tongue. Keep your mouth area nice and loose.

Step 4. OPEN OR CLOSED: Pay attention to whether or not she kisses you with her eyes open or closed. If she has her eyes open then she is doing either 1 of 3 things. 1.) She is losing trust in you 2.) She is self conscious about the way she is kissing and is watching your reaction 3.) Your breath smells like hot garbage and she feels very uncomfortable. In any case, you must step up your game plan, modify your technique or grab a breath mint if you fall into scenario 3. Remember you want to make her feel that she kisses just as good as you whether she does or not. I find it rather creepy when you open your eyes during a kiss only to find her staring at you.

Step 5. LEADERSHIP: Lead her as if you were doing the samba or salsa but very subtly and gently. Remember you have to keep in mind that women want a strong leader. Slowly transition yourself to the next position. For example: Gently place your two lips on her bottom lip and slowly graze a little tongue underneath the bottom lip. Then allow her to take the initiative to return the favor if she desires.

Step 6. HOW LONG? Well of course there really is no set time limit but it is always good for you to pull away first before she does. You have to do it in a way that does not make her feel that she did not perform well.

Step 7. WHEN DO I STOP AND WHAT DO I DO AFTER? So right before your lips start to get numb slowly disable your lips from hers just as seductive as the way you were kissing her. Your body language tells everything so make sure you smile and blush for her. Tell her how good of a kisser she is. Then turn away and start an interesting intellectual conversation. Why would I want to do this? Women like a man who is intelligent, can hold a conversation, and more importantly has "strong will power and self control". It will leave her hypnotized, mesmerized and make you look like an enigma. Never ask her if you were a good kisser. You should be confident enough to know that you are the best.

Well that's all I have for you today folks but remember that life is short and a kiss is just a kiss.

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Tips For Saving Your Relationship by Dan Collins

2008-05-09T04:56:00.000-07:00

Tips for Saving Your Relationship

"Relationship is understanding. It is a process of self-revelation. Relationship is the mirror in which you discover yourself-To be is to be related. To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person"

We must form relationships in order to dissolve relationships. In relationships a self is related to another self. The opposite of self is no-self. The No-self is the True Self. When there is no self there is nothing to relate to. No relationships is necessary because you are one with what you relate to. How do you relate to yourself? You cant because you are one. In relationships both parties seek to derive something from the relationship. Usually an Idea that this person can offer you something. We form relationships so we can give to others and in turn they give to us. Be it love, time, money, company, happiness. In relationships all should be given and nothing expected in return. Even if they give to us nothing should ever be expected. The point of relationship is to build power. The power of 2 as one is stronger than the power of 2 individuals.

Saving your relationship means saving the love between 2 people. It means seeing the value of being together as opposed to being alone. If there is more value to be gained for both individuals being alone, than it would better to be separate. Saving your relationship means determining this value. Saving your relationship means Loving Yourself so That you can love another. Loving another and hating yourself is not giving true love.

"Life does not care about your relationships. Life is looking for a channel and like a strong wind, it will beat on relationships to test it. If the relationship can't take the testing then either the relationship needs to grow in strength so that it can take it or it may need to dissolve so something new and fresh can emerge from the ruins. Whether it crashes or not is less important than what is learned."

When relationships fail it is because the "I" is not getting what they want. The less want the better the relationship will function. With those we live and work and play with the less we want and expect from them the more they will ultimately give us. If you devote life to no-self than you devote life to all self's, because I am no-self and so is everyone else. If I'm dedicated to the true self(no-self) than I am dedicated to you and me. The goal is to be centered on life. Don't be self centered or even centered on others. Being centered on others denies yourself. Become one with all things. The true self separates itself from nothing.

While Saving Your Relationship may seem hopeless you must learn to "See the Sun In The Midst Of The Rain" See this as an opportunity for 2 strangers to fall in love again. Saving your relationship is always worth it. Even couples that break up must learn to forgive and let the past be the past. Before you were a couple you should have been friends, and nothing is more sacred and worth saving than friendship.

Helpful Resources

1.How To Save Your Relationship

2.The Magic Of Making Up

3.Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

I recommend you check out these resources if you are serious about saving your relationship. Everyone is unique so some ways work for others and

About the Author

Dan Collins is a relationship counselor from Chicago, Illinois. He has been giving therapy to couples for the last 6 years.