Go to a playground that's not in use and play! Take along a picnic lunch, baseball, bat, Frisbee or outdoor toys (blowing bubbles is fun)� Have a great lunch after playtime.

Don't surprise your date with a hatchet movie, meal, etc. on the first date. They may be allergic to horror films - and you don't want to 'surprise' a vegetarian with a dinner at "Harvey's House of Beef."
With a 'surprise' date you could end up with a teetottler at a wine-tasting, or a lactose-intolerant date at a cheese fest - you get the picture...

Be honest, don't play games. Avoid even stretching the truth, the first time you're caught it will destroy your credibility.


Be on time. Lateness is inconsiderate (not to mention it reveals all sorts of things about your personality such as your passive-aggressive tendencies). If your date is late, be pleasant, and listen to their reason - it might be legitimate.

Tell yourself you're not nervous, just excited.

If your date compliments you don't just brush it off or say something rude about yourself, say thank you and do NOT put yourself down.

If you're concerned about topics of conversation, be sure to read a newspaper or watch a news program that day so you're up on world events.

Find out if he has any good platonic female friends. It's a good sign if they can relate to women�

Keep checking the inside (give the exterior stuff a rest). If you stay focused on looks you may end up ignoring or dumping a perfectly fantastic person without ever really giving them a chance.

Be open -- to your date's ideas about what to do on the date and express yourself honestly (AND tactfully).

Don't manhandle your date and don't rush sex!

Keep the first date brief. Leave them wishing for more, not wondering how to escape.

Stay away from someone who only talks about money and 'things' or who boasts - usually signs of deep-seated insecurity.

Don't talk about marriage and kids and long-term plans for the two of you on your first dates.

Be clear about the date, time and place...and be on time! Don't leave things hanging with "I'll call you later with the details�"

Keep topics light and keep away from controversial issues on the first date. Also, refrain from using off-color language or jokes, or making sexual references.

Try a sporting event neither one of you have ever seen live: a polo match, professional tennis tournament, golf tournament, dressage, volleyball, tractor-pull, sumo-wrestling - whatever you can agree on doing together that's different.

Collect cocktail napkins or other mementos from all the places you have been together.

Help solve a problem by writing a letter to together to the love doctor - "Dr TRuth."

Remember, games can be fun. Monopoly, computer games for two, card games, and end it all with a game of Twister.

Flirting Tips For Men to Charm Any Woman

Flirting (if you don't already know) is the indirect advertising of sexual interest between a man and a woman. It's how 'adults' communicate with each other in a sexual way, instead of directly saying something "Hey, I'd like to have sex with you tonight or sometime soon. Would you like to have sex with me?"

When you flirt with a woman, it actually says to her "I'm attracted to you sexually and am considering having sex with you". Flirting also asks the woman "Are you interested in me in a sexual way?"

If you then know what to look for in a woman's response, you will see her responding with a clear "Yes" or "No" based on the changes in her body language, words and behavior.

In a minute, I'm going to teach you how to tell if a woman is interested. However, for now – let's look at a way that you can flirt with women. One of the most powerful flirting tips for men is to add in a cheeky smile when interacting with women.

The cheeky smile is not an 'over the top' type of cheeky smile. It's relaxed, confident and slightly mischievous. Try it now.

It's best used 1-2 times during a 5-minute interaction with a woman, especially when she is telling you a story or talking about anything sex-related.

The reason the cheeky smile works is that it's an indirect advertising of your sexual interest in her. However, because you are not explicitly saying that you want to have sex with her, the woman will think, "What does that smile mean? Does he like me, or?"

She will then try to find out if you do like her, by flirting back at you. This, of course, is a VERY good thing.

...but, how about you?

When you interact with women, are you able to create the exciting and sexually arousing feelings that are created by flirting? Or, are you often being too nice and seen as 'just a friend' by women?

When you know how to flirt with women properly, you will see a MASSIVE change in the way women treat you.For example: When I'm out at a shopping mall, I am able to use another flirting technique to have women smiling and flirting with me, even before I meet them.

If you're looking for flirting tips for men that give you the edge over other guys, then this is definitely it. I use it all the time with women and my friends are often at a loss as to how I get the hottest of women, giving me shy, girly and flirty looks.

It's easy.

All you have to do (actually, it takes a little bit of practice!) is use a subtle version on the cheeky smile, added with (this is the most important flirting ingredient of all) a slight squint of your eyes while maintaining confident eye contact.

Do that properly and women WILL respond in ways that you've never seen before.

When I started using the flirting tips I've just shared with you, I went from being seen as a 'just a friend' to being able to meet women during the day or night and walk away with their phone number in minutes, then set up a date that would lead to sex and relationships.

Flirting really is the key ingredient that will separate you from all the other guys in a woman's eyes.

If you want more flirting tips for men (including what to say and ways to touch women in a flirtatious way), then simply enter your name and e-mail below.

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"text-align: center;">Make a Girl Want to Kiss You

If you do not have a girl friend, or have one and you think she might be getting turned off, follow these tips and they will help.

The Steps you need to do

1. Have great lips. No girl wants to kiss a guy with chapped, hard, cut-up lips! You should use chap stick frequently. Do not overdo it in such a way that you have a big clump of chapstick somewhere on your lips.

2. Don't be caught licking your lips! It might be "sexy" to guys when girls lick their lips, but some girls find it annoying or strange when a boy does this.

3. Make sure you have good dental hygiene. Brush teeth twice a day and don't forget to floss.

4. Keep mints in your pocket. Don't use gum too much; it's not as effective as mints because with gum, you produce more saliva.

5. Make sure you do not smell offensive. If you do, then don't even think of approaching the girl. Girls have very sensitive noses.

6. Have a lot of eye contact with the girl. If you are quiet she may think you don't like her.

7. Girls want to kiss guys they are attracted to. Girls don't expect you to look perfect, but you must look presentable.

8. Be thoughtful and considerate of her: open doors, buy her candy and flowers, send love notes or text messages or talk on msn/aim.# go to www.spaz-junkey.tk

More Advice

· Be yourself and do not be nervous! (Your nervousness only makes the girl nervous, and if she isn't nervous then that means you are doing well). Just "keep it real" and you will be fine! Be cool!

· Don't make her wait so long for another kiss - when you have the chance just kiss her.

· When a girl looks your way, try touching the sides of your mouth casually. Her first thought in her head would be kissing you.

· A way to let get her more comfortable is to hug her often, or put your arm around. Girls like this because they feel protected and safe. This will also breakig the touching barrier.

Since some women are kind of "complicated" when it comes to express their wishes in clear words (please read It is your Duty to use Words) there CAN BE A REAL DIFFERENCE in what a woman says and what she wants. Thus when you are too friendly (= make her every wish come true) while dating for the first time, it may symbolize that you simply do what she asks for and not what she needs.

There are even some jokes regarding this:

In other words: She knows very well that sometimes she wants you to read her real mind. She knows that she needs to cry sometimes or that she has ups and downs. If you are too friendly (= sensitive) it can mean that her everchanging mood involves you so deeply that you won't be her stable rock, who KNOWS what to do. You have to show that whatever happens YOU keep an eye on the overall situation. That you can hold your position. That you can have your OWN opinion of what she needs and what not. That you know when a "yes" is a "no". That you know when her "oh, nothing" is in reality "something really bad".

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